What Unplugged And Turned On Is

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This is Unplugged and Turned On, where we drop the masks, challenge the rules, and explore what connection, desire, and relationships really look like beneath the surface. This is an adult podcast and is not intended for anyone under the age of 18. So if you're under 18, go find something else to listen to. I'm Neil.

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And I'm Trinity. And together we're getting into the real stuff: attraction, intimacy, communication, and the moments that actually create chemistry.

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No scripts, no pretending. Just honest conversations about what turns us on. Mentally, emotionally, and physically. So go ahead. Unplug a little.

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And let's turn something on.

Why We Booked Bliss Cruise

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Hey, hey, welcome back. I'm Trinity. And I'm Neo. And this is Episode 9. Oh, wow, number nine.

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Yeah.

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Um, and in today we're gonna talk about our first Bliss Cruise, lifestyle cruise. Our first cruise ever, actually. So it was a two-for-one deal for us. Uh and um talking about uh playing with single single men, single guys.

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Yeah, all of the fun that we've had there, right? Yeah, and lessons learned.

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Yes. Yeah. Un we didn't, I did not we did not set out that was not a thing.

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No, it wasn't gonna be a like, hey, let's try this thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We talked a little bit about that in the last episode, but it's been a lot of fun. So we want to talk about that today. But first we will talk about the Bliss

Booking Chaos And Cold Florida Arrival

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Cruise.

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Yeah, we what what was that? Like February? Yeah, we went February.

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Yeah. Um, and I had brought it up, I think, before, and I'm like, hey, I want to go on this, uh, go on this cruise, and I think um Trinity's like, uh Absolutely not. Yeah, that was a no.

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I'm like, you know what happens on cruises? People get sick.

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People get sick, that's the and you're and you're trapped and you get sick. And like Trinity is not a fan of buffets, and what do you have on ships?

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Buffets, but she survived, but and and also I do get motion sickness, so it was I mean, there was that like all of the things.

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So Cruz doesn't sound good. Yeah, yeah.

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And we we've been on large ferries before, um, and it's been okay.

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It's been okay, but yeah. So, anyways, like I had brought that up. Um, she said no, and then I think she mentioned it one day, like, uh, maybe that would be fun. So I just immediately take those ideas and run. I do not recall. She did she probably had some tequila or something. I don't remember. And then uh because I was looking at the one in February initially, and they had been they didn't have the room that I wanted. Yeah, for balcony rooms that were sold out, and then it just so happened like you the day that you said you thought it might be fun, or at least I recall you said it might be fun. You had a dream. The next morning I I woke up um as I was getting ready to work out. I looked at my phone, I'm like, oh, they have a room. And I'm like snagged it. I snagged it. I'm like, we're doing this. She says she was not as interesting.

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Like, guess what? We're doing any query.

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You're like, what?

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I'm like, I haven't had coffee yet.

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You're like, what have you done? So we went in February.

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Oh, and quin coincidentally, um, there was a nor'easter that day.

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Just there we go. That we landed at Fort Lauderdale, and it was so cold, and it was rainy and windy. Like I had never been to Florida before, and all I could ever think about was Florida does not get cold. It's warm, muggy, even in February. That's why people go on cruises in February. We got there and it was cold.

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We traveled with uh pants, jeans, a light sweatshirt because we like to be comfortable on the flight, and we didn't have anything else that was warm because we were going on a cruise to the Caribbean.

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And I know like all things are relative, like the people that were actually there uh facing the Nor'easter were probably a lot colder than we were. I know, we're whiny.

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We're so we're so freaking cold.

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But we are from an area of the country that isn't necessarily cold. Um, no. So it was cold to us, so I'll just say that.

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We're big babies when it comes to that.

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So we got there and there was a hotel um where everybody was most of the attendees were staying there.

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The day before it was like uh I guess they called it a meet and greet at the embassy suites. Uh I think a lot of people were going there.

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Yeah.

The App And A Loud Meet

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Um we bliss.

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I just want to interject too. Um leading up to this, they had created an app, launched an app, uh, so you could meet, chat with people, kind of yeah. Yeah, see who's going. See who's going.

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Right. Yeah. I think I had chatted with a couple couples through the app. And then it but what was also good about the app was it had the whole schedule of events kind of thing.

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So that wasn't really that was good.

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Yeah. But we got to the hotel, I forget who it was. Maybe it was Topless Travel or something that put on the meet and greet at night. Um but we went downstairs for that. And while we were waiting for it to open, we ran into a couple that we had actually seen at the San Antonio Hotel Takeover. We chatted with them for a bit. Um, that was fun. Um, nice couple.

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And we hadn't met, actually met them when we were at the takeover.

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Right.

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They just sat next to us and chatted us up, and I'm like, oh, I recognize you guys.

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Right. Absolutely. Yeah.

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They were yeah, great couple. They're really nice, fun.

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Yeah. And then um the the hall opened up where the meet and greet was, and we went in there. Oh and the music was blaring, and you couldn't talk to anybody. So we walked in like the front area. We walked in and we walked out, and then we traveled through the length of the room and out the exit doors of the back, and we did not attend because it was so it was not a meet and greet.

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It it's it's advertised as a meet and greet. It is and was not one, it was a party, like super loud. There's no way, there's no way to talk to anybody, right? So uh we talked to people outside. There's like because the hotel has like this indoor courtyard. Yeah, we kind of hung out and yeah, yeah, and I gotta say, it was the worst bar service I have ever like encountered.

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We'll just leave it at that. Right. Your body's getting tense right now.

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I you're just like your face just changed. But that was that was the crappiest. I would do like a negative tip negative, yeah, yeah. Um I was basically crawling over the bar to get this person's attention at one point.

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And I was standing in line for like 45 minutes, and there was nobody in front of you. Yeah, no one one person in front of you. One person didn't seem interested in helping with anything. Yeah. So, anyways, we did that the first night. Meet and greet was a bust.

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You know what? Hold on. We're probably the the group that was there, people probably freaked out and did not want to give us service.

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Well, they could have been that too. Absolutely. But I don't care. It was bad.

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You're looking, you know, fine, sexy, yes, you're like, oh yeah, he must be with the ship.

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You were saying that about me, right?

Boarding Was Shockingly Easy

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Yeah.

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So we um the next day took an Uber or whatever to the cruise ship. I thought it was gonna be a miserable experience getting on the ship. Oh, I know, but it was so easy.

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It they did a great job or were clueless. Uh both, probably. But it was so I'm gonna say the word swift comes to mind. Yeah, it was really quick. Was no waiting. Yeah. We got out of the Uber, we basically walked the gauntlet, passport, show your ticket. Yep, and we're in the I don't know, the lobby of the ship.

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Yep, that was quick up the gangway, and then you had to wait a little bit for your rooms to open. I forget when we got on the ship, probably like between nine and ten o'clock. Yeah, I like to do things early. I don't know. And I think the rooms opened up at maybe one. I don't know. It was like three. I think we hang around too long, but you it is a matter. You dropped uh bags off with the porters on the side of the ship.

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We had a little um uh carry-on kind of bag. Yeah, just in case like pool bags were like, oh, maybe we'll go to the pool. Yeah, but we tell you what.

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It was called that's a no.

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Yeah, it was like 50 degrees.

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And there was it was I guess the February Bliss cruises are smaller groups, and it was a smaller ship. And they had kind of a small pool outside, and then they had the like one hot tub. And this oh, and they also had a solarium which had a pool at a pool indoors, but you couldn't get to the pooled off because it's cordoned off for a playroom, yeah. Which I thought was some people probably really like that, but I'm like, you have you have a bunch of lifestyle people on a ship, you only have one pool outside, it's cold. The other pool that's inside is not available because it's a playroom, but you can't go in there during the day to play, so I don't know. For me, I was like, that was a little bit interesting. The first like day and a half seemed like wow, but like okay, let's stay warm. But the shh, yeah.

Sauna Wins And Theme Night

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So the first night was well. Basically, we got on the ship, we familiarized ourselves with the ship. We walked around, we found the sauna area.

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Oh, yeah.

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Well like guess what? Guess what we're doing.

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We're signing up for the sauna.

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We loved it. We went every day.

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We did a couple times a day, maybe it was awesome. Yeah, especially on the cold days. Like we went there when it was cold because you couldn't do anything else, and that was nice. Uh, I think we the first night we did the theme night, went to the club. Yeah, that was fun, but I think, yeah. I forget what the theme night was for that, but whatever. We brought we brought theme night attire for each of the nights, like you do. Yeah, oh, I think it was pirate. It was it's yeah, yeah, okay.

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Yeah, that was cool.

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So it was pirate, that was cool. Yeah, I think if I had to do it again, I would have got Trinity a much shorter skirt. Like she looked like a good pirate wench, but there's a lot of fabric, and the same kind of on my costume, too. Like we were dressed like we were going to a costume party and not an uber sexy costume party.

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But you know, you try right.

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You're limited on Shein and Amazon and what's gonna get here in time and all of that stuff. Yeah, yeah. But we did that, that was fun. The dance floor was it was nice, like we enjoyed the first night.

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Um and like there was a dance, there was dancing, I guess, outside, but again, freaking cold.

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Yeah, they had two club areas upstairs, and then I think so we danced in one, walked past the other one later. There was like a country night or something in there.

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That's right. I forgot about that one, and and that the one on third or fourth level, third level, yeah, that the Latin well that was cool.

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That was in the lobby area, yeah. So we passed the country one on our way, and we heard Latin music coming from downstairs. So we're like, yeah, let's go down there, because that you can definitely dance too. Yeah, so I think really what it was was we were in the main club, and then the music just got like it was all EDM. Yeah, was it EDM? Not not like blasting people that like EDM, but it was it just turned into all EDM. It was a good mix up beforehand.

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Right, it was good, and then it went into some sort of like I don't know, lifeless people were leaving the dance floor.

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So we went downstairs, we danced for a while in the lobby area, bright lights, all that stuff. Like not a bunch of people dancing, but it was Latin music, and we really enjoyed ourselves there. Um, and then we went to bed. I forget what time it was. It was probably midnight after midnight.

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When it's just you and I, we're just we kind of go, Oh, you you done? Yeah, yeah, I'm done.

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And I can't remember, like uh it's all a blur anyways, like timeline stuff, but I don't know if we played together that night or not, but I think we did almost every day and all of that good stuff.

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Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

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Yeah, and then day

Skipping Nassau And Beating Sunk Cost

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two. Day two was supposed to be like that's when we were in port um in Nassau. Yeah, and that was supposed to be an off-ship day, and we had I had like paid and signed up for uh excursion that day to go out on the beach, and we decided not to go.

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It was cold again and windy. So we've had experience because of where we've lived, uh being on beaches when it's windy, and I'm like, it's great if you want to get like sandblasted. Yeah. I did not want to just sit on a beach and feel miserable, so we stayed.

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And I forget what it what like the word is or whatever, but we decided that just because we paid some pretty decent money to go on the excursion, yeah. We oh well just because we pay doesn't mean we want to go out there and be miserable.

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Yeah, it's like, oh well, we sunk costs. It's like, oh well, it's okay. I'm not just gonna do it just because nothing.

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Just because I paid money. Because I will go out to the beach and we'll be miserable. Especially windy, and sand. I I don't like wind. Can't get in the water because it's cold. Yeah, so we did not get off the ship. Uh we stayed on the ship, hung out, I think a schooner's bar a little bit, went to the sauna. Was that the day we met the yeah, we might have met some podcasters that day. Some podcasters that day, had a conversation with them.

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Yeah.

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It was a weird conversation in the end. Yeah, it was. But yeah, yeah, it was. And as I expected, yeah.

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But we met we actually we met um uh another half of that. Of that, yeah, half of them. And really enjoyed hanging out with them, talking to them a little bit. Yeah, we that was lovely, it was wonderful.

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Yeah, we met them the first day on the ship, right?

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Yeah, when we were waiting at our rooms because uh we saw that one couple from the great night.

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Yeah.

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Um, and I'm like, oh yeah, I wanted to let her know she reminded me of somebody, right? Kind of uh a sex educator on YouTube. Um, and I was like, Hey, you remind me of Caitlin V. She hadn't she didn't know who that was, and so I showed her. I'm like, you look like her.

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Uh-huh. Gorgeous. Caitlin V's artists. Yes. Yeah.

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Anyway, so we we met a few people that the that first day.

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Yeah, which was kind of cool because I think was it Brad or whatever was like, Hey, is that Neo? And it's like, oh yeah, man, come on over here. So that was cool.

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Like I just sometimes um interject myself.

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I love that. She helps break into like yeah, because I think you also want that from others too. Like, hey, feel free in these environments, come up, you know, say something. Come on.

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I kind of backfired when we were at the we're sitting there, kind of in that same area, and uh we that couple right at the bar, they had it he had a t-shirt on, and I'm like, oh, that's like from our area. I think it's from our area. Strike struck up a conversation, it was like, okay, cool, peace out.

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Bye. Um and frankly, that was like I frankly, I just said that, but like it's not like we were interested in them as a couple, anyways. It was just I'm just being friendly and like hey like hey, I know you're sure. Right.

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Like, yeah, but it was that didn't go anywhere. Yeah, I felt like, oh, I'm bothering you.

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Yeah, I'm out of here.

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I'm sorry. Go back to not talking to your wife.

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Oh, so yeah. Day two, whatever, on the ship. We stayed on the ship, met the one couple, talked with them, was kind of weird.

Sushi Night With Broken AC

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And then I think we Okay, I gotta say, we you made reservations at the sushi restaurant.

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Oh, at night. I haven't got there yet.

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I wore this like lovely dress that you had custom made for me, and I was so excited to finally wear it. And the air conditioner was broken in the restaurant. It it's already cold. It was air conditioner, is on, and I'm barely wearing clothing, and so I like please go get my jacket. So you yes, not even a jacket, like a light light thing.

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They're like, No, I'll be okay. And I'm like, I am going to get the jacket. I know how this is gonna go.

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My teeth are chattering, and the couple next to us are like, this is yeah, this is ridiculous.

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That was very smart to go with the jacket.

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I'm like, they're like, we're all suffering, we're all suffering.

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But it was still good, it was a great dinner.

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It it was, but I'm like using my napkin, wrapping it around my legs, like, okay, do this.

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Right, because you're supposed to be in like sexy attire to go to dinner, right? Yeah, it was freezing. They apologized, like it was broken. Yeah, but I mean whatever.

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It's not their fault, but we and I guess they were working on it, but it the uh we made the best of it.

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Yeah, but that day we think we like I said, we stayed on the ship, we did the sauna.

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We enjoyed ourselves.

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We enjoyed ourselves. Yeah, I don't know if we went outside much that day, but you know, about they have a few places where you just hang out.

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Schooner's bar on this particular ship was that tended to be our that and the champagne bar was like our kind of our hangouts.

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Yeah, yeah, that was nice. Um, they had this really cool piano guy that played at night at Schooner's bar. He was so funny. Like you'd send him requests, and he would play any freaking song. He was amazing.

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He was so talented, and I love that he was from New York because he had that like attitude accent, and and he would just call people out. Yeah, it was funny. It was funny, and we did that like every day.

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Yeah, it was funny. Um, day two on the ship we went out and worked out every day. I just want to throw that in because you know you gotta do that, especially with all the eating and drinking you're doing on a ship.

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Like you gotta maintain the time you have, and we're early risers, and we're like, hmm, we'll go do this thing. We're those people, we're gonna feel like a little less guilty drinking all the time.

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Right, because I got the drink package, which I shouldn't have done, but I did it anyways. It was so expensive on that ship. But I did it. So you also want to make sure you're getting some drinks out of it. Yeah, um, but yeah, um but day two was fun, like it was warmer that day, or day three. I don't know. Wednesday was normal, Thursday was normal.

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So it's like,

Nude Sunbathing And Balcony Debates

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yeah. Wednesday, Thursday were good days. Like temperature wise. We're outside getting sun on our buns. Sun our buns, like and other things, yeah, other parts of the body.

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That was the first time I went, I think. Total uh no, I guess maybe maybe when we went to Scarlet Ranch, like I did the slide.

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We were way more courageous.

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Yeah, but we both got totally naked on the ship sunbathing in a quiet little corner of the place.

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But yeah, I mean it was and it was like nothing because I don't know.

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Because other people were too. Yeah, it's back to its normalized.

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I am not as self-conscious about that, but I'm also not like I want to do it. It's not the thing I want to do. I'm like, yeah, whatever.

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Like I'll do it because I can get some tan on my hoo-ha. Yeah, or whatever. But it's not, it doesn't turn me on, it's not a fantasy. I just want to be naked.

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The body is um a normal, natural thing, and I I'm I'm okay. I'm not seeking it out.

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Yeah. I think the second night, I don't know if we we did we get dressed up that night. I can't remember. I think we did. I think we went up to the club and we walked right back out.

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Oh yeah, I think it was like we were like, nope.

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If the music ain't right, we're out.

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Nope. Because it going, you know, it's like it sets the mood, and yeah, I think we kind of went in and out. We're like, nah.

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I did, yeah. Third day, probably more of the same. Um saw some, I don't know what day specifically, but it doesn't matter. Like one day we saw some dolphins off the balcony, which is really cool. We did, we did. Yeah, that was really awesome.

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Flying Yeah, some flying fish. And I know, like, I wanted to say this. Like, we purposely picked balcony because we we love to outside. Yes. Need to have that access. I want to have the access. If I'm gonna be on a ship, I want to have that access. Right. I want to hear and see the water, the sky, nature, whatever, however, is limited. I want to see it. Um, and we heard a lot of people complain like, oh man, don't get that. That's terrible. You want this.

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I'm like, you can't make your room dark enough.

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I'm like, you know, hold on. I were we, like, we picked the room that we wanted. Like, we're good with it. Yep. We want it. We liked it. We're happy with it.

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Yeah. We we there is no perfect right thing. We played on the balcony. We did. That was fun. I think we kind of set out to do that anyways. Like, I want to do that. Was a goal. And we listened to a bunch of people. There's a symphony.

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It was awesome to have a balcony room because people have their doors or sliding glass doors open or having sex on the balcony.

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Or on the balcony, and you can hear it. It was it was hot.

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Yeah, it is hot. It was it was great.

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We yeah, all the days run together, so you know ultimately like food was good on the ship.

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It was, and I was afraid of the food thing, because you know, buffets, but they had really good selections. It was great. They did a great job.

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Like the only time we did reservations of the place was the sushi night. The rest of the time we did that buffet, and it was great. Um dancing was okay. Uh the first night was good, the music, uh, like we said, died out a little bit.

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We only danced the first night and the last night.

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And then I th right, the last night. I would say like we've also I don't know if we talked about in the other episode or not. I think maybe we did, but we kind of find that we have this thing where we can we can party hard for two days, but on the third day, like we're done with the rest day.

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Yep, we hide out.

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So that day we definitely went to bed a normal time.

Playrooms Versus Private Room Fun

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We did a lot of like playing by ourselves in our room.

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We're having a great time with each other. We brought some toys, and yeah, it's just nice, like just just kind of relax into each other and not you just eat and fuck, eat and fuck, eat and fuck. Like it was yeah, and sleep, nap, nap, nap, nap.

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Fuck some more, eat some more. Yep.

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It was like that's I that's that's amazing.

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I had a lot of great sex in the room. There was this one time where uh Trinity had she was, I think, just kind of being playful for me, and they have these little weighted tables in the room, like little small height, short weighted tables, and she had this dildo and she stuck it to the table. I was like, Oh, that's cool. And I'm like, Yeah, I'm like, I can't remember what happened. I think I'm like, you should like I want like put that in. So with this thing mounted on the table, she uh slid it into herself, straddled the table, and she was fucking this dildo while it was on the table, and that was like that will forever. I'm getting hard right now. Yeah, that will forever be burned in my memory. Like that was so hard.

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He's like looking for a table.

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A small weighted table for my house. Yeah, I and I have not found it yet. Oh, okay.

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What a beautiful thing.

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So we played quite a bit in a room on the balcony. We didn't play with anybody on that on the ship. We didn't play in the playrooms because the playrooms was interesting, but the beds to me were like just hard, like not very soft, plus covered in like this thick rubber plasticky thing.

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I think like gymnastic mat, wrestling mat. Yes, that's it.

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Right. It's like okay.

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And I'm like or hygiene.

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Which is nice and soft and comfortable.

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Yeah, it's so you don't have to take someone in your room and have to clean your room or have to clean up. It's like right convenience.

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The last night, I would say I'll just highlight

Last Night Dancing And Cruise Value

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that part. The last night we danced out on the ship, we started the party. I was so proud of us. Like nobody was dancing yet. We did so we love dancing, so we just started the music, it was great and we were pumped up.

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Yeah, because I think we had originally gone to like the main club and it was so stinking hot.

SPEAKER_04 26:33

It was it's like the how the air conditioner was broken in the sushi restaurant. The heat was broken in the dance. I don't know something.

SPEAKER_01 26:42

It was broken, but it was a hot day on the ship. It was sunny, it was what we thought the whole, but it was.

SPEAKER_04 26:48

We walked in and then we turned around and left. Like, no way.

SPEAKER_01 26:52

So we went out on the balcony, or not balcony, we went out on the main deck, and open deck, yeah. It was a nice cool breeze a little bit. The music was pumping, and we just danced. Yep.

SPEAKER_04 27:03

We just had a great time, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 27:04

And then the next day we brought the party. We did, we brought the party, like everybody started dancing at that point.

SPEAKER_04 27:10

Yeah, we were very pumped up.

SPEAKER_01 27:13

Yeah, so that really wrapped up our first our first Bliss cruise, our first cruise ever. Um, but it was fun. I think when we talk about it, we we think like it would I would do it again. It wasn't my favorite thing of the year, but I think it would also be more fun. We've talked about this if we went with some friends, some people that we knew.

SPEAKER_04 27:34

Yeah, like a group of people, and then like maybe you kind of come together and then break and go do your own thing, and then maybe come together, or you see each other and you say hi. Like you don't have to be stuck together because I don't think no one wants that. But um, that would be fun.

SPEAKER_01 27:50

But I think you know, a lot of people that do bliss cruises seem to do bliss cruises.

SPEAKER_04 27:56

See each other.

SPEAKER_01 27:56

Well, so they've been on like 15-20 cruises and they're kind of the same cycle. We're February. So I think you make friends that way. Um overall value, I think it was actually pretty good value, you know, as opposed to like desire that we've been to as well. Very expensive, also very nice, but very expensive. The cruise itself, I thought was a good value. I would not have done their drink package, I would not do that again. Beyond that, everything else was good. Like I enjoyed it.

SPEAKER_04 28:25

Yeah, and the like the food was great, like yeah. Um, like if you just want to keep eat light, there's so many options. Um different, I don't know, international cuisine or but it was something for everybody.

SPEAKER_01 28:42

It was good. We didn't make a lot of connections on that trip.

SPEAKER_04 28:47

Didn't um yeah, I don't know. They were a little more guarded, but it was also a lot of people for us, yeah, and there are a lot of places for people to go, so it's like you we probably didn't see the same people too many times. We did we did see a few people, um I was like, oh, here they are again. Um also we're like this is our first cruise, we were like we're just checking things out. What floor is this on? Yes, what is it? Where's the salary?

SPEAKER_01 29:20

Yeah, so anyways, first bliss cruise, good. I would recommend it if you've never been on one.

SPEAKER_04 29:26

I think I I would do it again.

SPEAKER_01 29:27

Yeah, yeah. That was good. Yeah. All right. Uh we will be back in just a minute. And we're talking about single guys, so stay tuned.

Switching To Single Guy Play

SPEAKER_01 29:39

And we are back.

SPEAKER_04 29:41

Yeah, we're gonna talk about single guys. So how did we get how did we get here?

SPEAKER_01 29:48

And as we took the break, I was trying to think that too. I was planning on coming back here and saying, hey, uh, how did we get to that? Do you remember?

SPEAKER_04 29:58

I mean I'm sure I yeah, I'm sure you brought it up.

SPEAKER_01 30:02

Everything is me bringing things up.

SPEAKER_04 30:03

I think it was like, hey, what do you think about fill in the blank?

SPEAKER_01 30:07

Yes. Yeah. And I yeah.

SPEAKER_04 30:11

Or because also, like I've said, like, hey, I think it's I think um I think I've mentioned that, like, oh, I think this would be hot, or I could see that.

SPEAKER_01 30:21

And then I think we kind of little by little, and then you kind of thinking of Yeah, I think in the class that we took, one of your classmates said something about on Lust Cinema, one of the videos on there. Yeah, and it was uh a gangbang or something. It was a right, it was a girl with all these guys. Yeah, and we started talking about that.

SPEAKER_04 30:46

What would that be like? How is that? What's how what's how what number's too many? Yeah, it's the right number.

SPEAKER_01 30:52

And I thought, like, you thought it was kind of a hot thing to watch, and we started talking about the right number, and I think that's where I got the idea, like, oh, I hadn't thought about that before, but that's untrulky.

SPEAKER_04 31:05

Oh, she's like open to this or open to the idea of talking about it at least.

SPEAKER_01 31:10

Yeah, I'm already getting tingly. Oh tingly, yeah. So I think when that door opened, I asked Trinity, hey, you know, is it okay then if I start looking um for single guys? Is that a thing? And she said, Yeah. Um, so I started the hunt.

Where The Idea Really Started

SPEAKER_01 31:31

Um and what I what I found was different for our area, anyways, most of the people that we had met, like couples, we haven't met a lot, but most of them we have met through Cassidy. On Cassidy for our area, there weren't a lot of single guys, which I was a little bit surprised. I found more single guys on SLS. Um, so I had found a few and just started my initial awkward conversations, like because we've never never done this before. Um you reaching out to them versus changing, dropping that it's a little bit different, like yes, but I would say like on SLS at least, as soon as you say you're open to single guys, like you get a bunch of messages from randos. And I'm like, you didn't even bother reading our profile, like none of that stuff, so that bugs me. Like, if you can message me and show that you read our profile and who we are and can make comments around that, okay, we can have a conversation. But if you're like, hey, nice tits, or your wife is beautiful, I'm like, Of course I know my wife is beautiful. If that's all you've got, then like, no shit, Charlie. Right. So I put my search parameters in and found some options and showed them to Trinity, and she's like, Okay.

Finding Singles On SLS

SPEAKER_01 32:51

And like we do with couples, it's like, let's have an initial meetup. We met up with two guys in particular on a weekend, just a meetup on a Friday night, and then I think a Saturday night.

SPEAKER_04 33:06

Yeah. Yeah, just to kind of like no pressure, only meet for drinks, like what do we think? Yeah. Um, because like you can only uh a picture is a picture, whatever. You gotta see the person, how they interact, who are they? Nobody and also for them to see you as a couple, how does the couple interact? What are they like?

SPEAKER_01 33:27

Yeah, nobody looks the same as their profile pictures, in my opinion. Like everybody's a everybody looks a little bit different to me. Like your profile picture only says so much. Reality is something totally different.

SPEAKER_04 33:40

Yeah. I've and you know, I think and like I mean, there's so many filters and angles, and what year was this taken?

SPEAKER_01 33:48

And yeah, exactly. Um, but we met the first guy on Friday night, and it you know, we were awkwardly uncomfortably there. First our first one, but he was an amazing conversationalist. It was great, made us feel right at ease.

SPEAKER_04 34:06

Yep, immediately just chatty, lots of stories. Yeah, um kept the conversation going, was like respectful of both of us. Like, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 34:17

It's like we'd known him for years, like just having conversations. Yeah, so that was fun. Saturday night, the next night we met another guy um out at a more public place, like a restaurant, but it was kind of the same thing. Totally different.

SPEAKER_04 34:31

Was it the I thought it was a different week?

SPEAKER_01 34:33

No, it was the same week. Oh, yeah, damn. Say it was back-to-back nights, which was odd for us. But we're like, But you like you do, you're like, let's just do it. Just do it.

SPEAKER_04 34:42

Right, not my going back to like like just do it, like stop talking about it, just get the shit done.

SPEAKER_01 34:49

But we met the other guy, um, different personality, but still like somebody very relatable and fun, fun, and short. No, I think that was the small little small guy, small guy. Little boy toy. That's right, little boy toy. That's what he likes. He prefers to be called so yeah, so he so you could tell he's stuck around.

SPEAKER_04 35:10

Fun, yeah. Yeah, you know, fun, playful, big, important thing to me.

SPEAKER_01 35:14

Yes, absolutely. Um, so that was the first weekend we'd engaged with any of them. Um, there was a third guy then that we met up with. Yep.

Red Flags And The Condom Wake Up

SPEAKER_01 35:26

Okay, when we talk about like when you hear the term red flags, like pay it pay attention to that. We we met this guy.

SPEAKER_04 35:34

The red flags aren't always red, they sometimes are pink.

SPEAKER_01 35:38

Yeah, sometimes they might come a little orange-ish, and you gotta. But we met this guy. He couldn't carry on a conversation for anything. It was really hard. Yeah, like good looking, clean cut.

SPEAKER_04 35:52

Good job, intelligent, like okay. And I'm like, oh, maybe it's just kind of shy. Like, I totally get that. He's outnumbered, got it.

SPEAKER_01 36:00

Yeah, but couldn't carry on a conversation at all. We it was like pulling teeth, um, but still nice. You're right. Yeah, respectful, nice, well dressed. Nothing that was like absolutely not get rid of this person, right? Yeah, you know, talks about how he had he's been in the lifestyle for uh several years, socking some game that I'm not sure was not real.

SPEAKER_04 36:28

Yeah, like or you've been in the lifestyle, but uh like 20 years it I'm just this is not what he said, but and you've done you've had two experiences, like that kind of deal. Like how long you've been? Yeah, how many experiences you've had?

SPEAKER_01 36:44

Yeah, it's really interesting. But anyways, so that was the next meeting, and he was actually the one we decided let's just do this.

SPEAKER_04 36:55

Yeah, he was available, every yeah. We're like, okay, right, let's do it. Going back to like, let's do it.

SPEAKER_01 37:02

Had him over to our house. Yeah, we're gonna like see where we're at, low key, we'll have we'll eat, right? So it was interesting. Um, so we had him over chatting a little bit.

SPEAKER_04 37:16

He brought some wine from and we had these like kind of this game we hadn't like tried out, and so we tried this game with him, like a board game, it was like a sexy board game, and it was so lame.

SPEAKER_01 37:29

Oh no, the board game we tried.

SPEAKER_04 37:30

We tried this game, we're like, this is dumb.

SPEAKER_01 37:33

Was it right for that?

SPEAKER_04 37:34

It was dumb, and also I can imagine a scenario where it would be like something that we did. So we threw that away, and then we did um the lifestyle cards.

SPEAKER_01 37:43

Yeah, we did the lifestyle cards, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 37:45

Um, uh, gotta say that's where the yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 37:52

Because you ask these sexy questions, like blah, and it's like, what do you mean you can't answer this?

SPEAKER_04 37:58

Or like the answer is bullshit. Like, who? I don't know, I'm making something up. Like, who, what's your type or something? And it's like, you right.

SPEAKER_01 38:11

Yeah, thanks.

SPEAKER_04 38:12

Can you just answer the question, honestly? You're already. I I started like asking him questions like, so you've been in a relationship lately. When's the last time? All these questions trying to probe for information. Because I'm like, hmm. I don't think this, I don't something's not right. I don't think this person says is what they say they are.

SPEAKER_01 38:38

It was weird, and a lot of this is also like hindsight stuff, too.

SPEAKER_04 38:42

It is, but it's but with the signs. Unfortunately, unfortunately, it is.

SPEAKER_01 38:46

Yeah, but very one-word answers, like asking a kid. Big, yeah, and it was interesting because I will say, like, I had looked at uh Cassie as well, and I swear to Criminy, he showed up there as part of a couple, and then as soon as I looked, I went to show you, and the profile was like gone, like I had been blocked or something, and he was a single guy, so I'm like M F or I don't know. I still think that was him because it was the same kind of exact hairstyle, height, age. It was interesting, anyway.

SPEAKER_04 39:22

But it's like you ask a question and it's like, oh, when's the last time you were in like a relationship, or did that? What do people think about you when you're in the lifestyle? Like, oh, like, yeah, it's like swear he's had like one girlfriend.

SPEAKER_01 39:35

I think it's felt like that.

SPEAKER_04 39:38

Yeah, I don't know, and that's so not a big deal, whatever, but it's just like so vague, vague, vague, vague, vague.

SPEAKER_01 39:44

And I'm uh and then it's like I am a shitter get off the pot kind of person, too. So I'm like, hey, are we gonna yeah, we can doing this or what? We're gonna play or not gonna play. Um so him and Trinity, you know, started kissing. Started kissing, making out a little bit on the couch.

SPEAKER_04 40:07

And that's when I'm like because anyone before. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_01 40:13

Like a middle schooler, is what you basically said.

SPEAKER_04 40:17

Like a sucker fish. I don't know. But I'm like, you know what? I haven't kissed a lot of people outside of you. So me there's no. It evolves, it evolves. But it was like he had like he had to be in a frame of mind and he couldn't deviate because uh it it it was um, I don't know if it's like performance, I don't know, but there was it was like, okay, yeah, that's gonna be the experience is already foretold.

SPEAKER_01 40:50

Yeah, so she was reaching out to me, I was holding her hand because I'm like looking around the room like, where the hell are you? Get over here, get over here.

SPEAKER_04 40:58

And this is our first experience.

SPEAKER_01 40:59

It's our first experience with a single guy. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 41:01

We which you did a great.

SPEAKER_01 41:02

You were always there, except when you weren't going to the bathroom, but you were yeah. And that's why I like that.

SPEAKER_04 41:09

But I wanted touch, I wanted you to be there and touching, and it was just he and I, and I'm like, nope, nope, I didn't, I don't want this.

SPEAKER_01 41:16

That's not what I want. We learn these things, right? That was our first experience. So we learned from that one. But we went into the bedroom, was messing around a little bit more. Um, and you were you were involved.

SPEAKER_04 41:31

I was involved.

SPEAKER_01 41:31

Yep, right. You were you were sucking my dick. I think he was eating her out. There was his stuff, it was fun. And I'm like, so do you want to fuck her? Like, he's like, Oh yeah. I'm like, okay.

SPEAKER_04 41:44

He's like, oh yeah.

SPEAKER_01 41:45

Do you have protection? He's like, I said, I said, did you do you need protection? He said, no, I'm good. Um, and he took his pants off, and he was about to fuck Trinity and did not have a condom. And I said, No, no, you need protection. Like, what in the fuck is that? Like, you are saying you're in the lifestyle, you say you're good, but you don't have a condom, and you think you're not gonna wear one?

SPEAKER_04 42:08

That was I think I had just totally disconnected from that point.

SPEAKER_01 42:14

Like, what in the fuck is this?

SPEAKER_04 42:17

Uh yeah, like you handed him one.

SPEAKER_01 42:21

I gave I pulled one out and gave it to him. Oh gosh.

SPEAKER_04 42:26

Like, and we had a conversation before we got out there. Right. We did not specifically address that, which we do every single time now. It's on the list. Learned, learned that lesson. So like non-negotiable, right? We only do that. Like, there is no way around it. Like, this is gonna happen. Yeah, condoms are gonna happen.

SPEAKER_01 42:44

Right. So when he's like, Yeah, I've got years of experience, I bullshit. Yeah, bullshit. So I fucked Trinity for a little bit.

SPEAKER_04 42:54

I don't think he was yeah, I don't know, man.

SPEAKER_01 42:57

Could keep it up, whatever.

SPEAKER_04 42:59

It's okay. He was having trouble.

SPEAKER_01 43:00

He was having trouble. It happens, yeah. It does. Um, I was having fun with her myself. We wrapped things up, and then um, and then it was like, because it was it was weird at that point, but then it's like we said we would eat, so uh, let me cook some food up real quick. Lessons learned. We're learning lots of lessons, lots of lessons.

SPEAKER_04 43:24

Get the hell out of my house lessons, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 43:26

Right. So I think it's like knowing when to leave.

SPEAKER_04 43:28

Know when to leave.

SPEAKER_01 43:30

Yeah. Um, so, anyways, we ate whatever. Eventually he left.

SPEAKER_04 43:35

Yep. He did not he did not overstay. I just want to give him that. He didn't overstay.

SPEAKER_01 43:39

Trinity was like, did he use a condom? Did you see it? I said, Yes, I saw him put it on. Oh, wait a minute. I woke up the next morning. Okay, there we go. The next morning woke up and said, I didn't see him like take it off or anything. I'm like, uh, I saw him put it on. I absolutely knew he wore it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 43:59

But I didn't check because I'm basically had like a meltdown through that whole situation. Like and I think also lesson learned, lesson learned, lesson learned.

SPEAKER_01 44:09

Right, a lot of lessons learned that time. What the but we had washed the blanket, blanket, all that stuff, and then out of the dryer, blanket comes off, condom falls the floor. I'm like, you didn't even throw the condom away to clean up after yourself. Like, oh my gosh. Red. Okay, so all these, and you know, everybody says hindsight 2020, and that was absolutely the fact. Yep. But you know, it's like at least it taught us things to look out for, things to be aware of, things to communicate. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 44:44

It sure did. It didn't like total scare us away from doing it again. We were like, okay.

SPEAKER_01 44:51

We knew this guy couldn't carry conversation.

SPEAKER_04 44:54

We we still have other people that we've met that do, and we feel way more comfortable and confident about that we should have picked. Yeah. We were just absolutely weird. We just wanted to get a done. We wanted to do a thing. We were patient. We're like, let's do it.

SPEAKER_01 45:08

He's fine, he's good enough. Yeah, he's good enough. That's right. That's right. So we played with another guy. I'm trying to figure out who was first. Oh, right.

A Hotel Setup That Works

SPEAKER_01 45:21

So the one one guy we met again, the first guy we met, we met him out. Um, we were gonna get a hotel, and that was it. Like, yep, not at my house. Not at my house, right? So we uh Terry and I got to a hotel room, um, got set up with some lights and some, you know, our nice little speaker, wait music. Our blanket that covers the bed. All the stuff that so we feel comfortable and we leak and all that stuff, and then we went out to met him for a drink. We were going out for a drink. That was miserable. Don't go to a crowded place on a Saturday night and expect that you're not gonna wait. So that was miserable, but he met us there when he finally got there. The conversation was good. Yeah, he brought the energy, yeah, because we were dying. We had waited Oh my gosh, like an hour. Yeah, for like something ridiculous. It was crazy. We were both getting tired, draining. He came out of the city. And I was super anxious that day. You were super anxious.

SPEAKER_04 46:22

I was like, even in the morning, I'm like, I cannot have a second cup of coffee.

SPEAKER_01 46:26

Right. Like I'm spinning. Which makes total sense, right? Like, yeah, after that first after the first experiments. Yeah. But he brought the energy, he brought the fun, he redeemed, went back. Yeah. We went back to the hotel. I like the um two-room kind of thing, like the little sitting area first. So I'd gotten a room uh room like that. We sat on the couch and talked for quite a bit, had some fireball because he likes fireball too. Yeah. Um, but just kind of talked, uh, laughed, joked, told the stories.

SPEAKER_04 47:02

I went and like dressed down. Yep. Is that the right? Yeah. Yeah. I put some sexy lingerie on and came back out.

SPEAKER_01 47:08

Hey, uh, this is where we do the hand signals that didn't go well. I'm like, hey, go into the you want. I'm like, why don't you go put lingerie on now?

SPEAKER_03 47:18

Okay, just say that. Don't have to do hand signals.

SPEAKER_01 47:21

Like, just say the thing. I'm trying to be subtle. I want to surprise him.

SPEAKER_04 47:25

Hey, babe.

SPEAKER_01 47:26

Oh no.

SPEAKER_04 47:27

Go put something sexy on.

SPEAKER_01 47:28

So she put something sexy on, got the party started. We had a great sexual experience with him. That was so much fun. The one thing we learned from that one, because this was really the first good one. Yeah. He was okay with me doing some video because I want that for myself. And I think it was a great experience. We had a lot of fun. Trinity had a lot of fun. It was very easy. The one thing we learned is because it was my real first time, I don't count the other weird guys our first time.

SPEAKER_04 47:59

Yeah, that was like a pre pre-game.

SPEAKER_01 48:02

So excited about being able to record, to watch Trinity getting fucked, like all of that, that I didn't participate much. And that was one of the things we learned there is hey, you need to be more connected. I'm like, Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. But it is it. I learned that day, it is so hot to watch my wife get pleasured by somebody else. How fucked up was that? But I it was fine.

SPEAKER_04 48:27

It was I could hear your like sounds and you're like, ooh, yeah. And which was like great because it's like encouraging, like, okay, he's okay. This is okay.

SPEAKER_02 48:35

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 48:36

But um, this uh partner was really great. Confidence knew what he was doing as far as keep things moving. Go, go, go. It wasn't like, no, what what do you do? What do you do? What's what do you there was no what do you do? What what do you want? What would you let? What do you want? I don't want to be asked, what do I want?

SPEAKER_01 48:55

Right.

SPEAKER_04 48:56

I know tell you if there's something I don't want. Or I'll speak up if there's something I want.

unknown 49:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 49:01

Yeah. Confidence.

SPEAKER_04 49:02

Yes, confidence. Yeah. Confidence is key.

SPEAKER_01 49:04

Yeah. The uh the other, the third guy, I guess, the second guy we met.

Sweet Hosts And Performance Anxiety

SPEAKER_01 49:10

Um, we went over to his house. He invited us over. He actually cooked for us.

SPEAKER_04 49:14

Yeah. Super sweet. What a sweetheart.

SPEAKER_01 49:16

Such a sweet guy. He even sent us home with leftovers.

SPEAKER_04 49:19

He did.

SPEAKER_01 49:20

But I think that was also a ploy to make sure we met up with him again.

SPEAKER_04 49:24

Because we had to give him his wear whatever we've got. Um but like we have some things in common. Like we like travel and so great conversationalists.

SPEAKER_01 49:33

He's great conversationalists because he's in a hot tub and it was a million degrees.

SPEAKER_04 49:37

It was. I I told him later, I'm like, I have some feedback for you. I think he was nervous. So I'm like, your hot tub's too hot.

SPEAKER_01 49:44

Yeah. But he knew it the time. He's like, I know. Me, like, I was in there, I don't care. I came out red, but it was it was nice. Yeah. So we went a laptop, got out, um, took a shower to rinse off. Yeah. And then we played in his room. It was interesting because we walked into the house, it really it's a nice house on an older house, nice house though, on a very nice side of town. Um, but when we walked in, it looked like a frat boy's house because you know it was bare.

SPEAKER_04 50:12

Yeah, he had warned us about it. Like, hey, I'm in the middle of like renovating. Like, okay.

SPEAKER_01 50:20

But we played on his bed, um, play with him. That was a lot of fun. I participated more. Uh, definitely some uh spit roasting kind of action. Yeah, we did all kinds of cool stuff.

SPEAKER_04 50:32

And it was like hey, laughing, playing. Hey, there's a couple things I want to try. And everyone was like, Cool, let's do it. Right, ski poles and mouth. All kinds of things. Yeah, two dicks in my mouth. I'm like, I want to try this.

SPEAKER_01 50:45

Okay, great, let's do it. And that was back to like easy, easy and fun and laughing. Yep. And he was like, Oh, this is so sexy. Like, look at you guys and look in the mirror. All of us in the mirror. Like, you guys are so hot. Yeah, and he's like, he was asking me, Are you okay? Everything okay?

SPEAKER_04 51:02

Like, do you want to tap in now? Yeah, yeah. And he was checking it with me, like, are you okay? Are you feeling? Are you doing? Yeah, like real a gentleman.

SPEAKER_01 51:11

Yep, those and that was really fun. We met up with him a second time, uh, this time at a hotel. Uh, we went out for a drink ahead of time, went to the hotel, still had a lot of fun. But I think that was also where we had a good time, we would do it again, but he was asking a little bit more, like, so what do you want? What do you want?

SPEAKER_04 51:30

And it's like, that's where it's like wanna just do a thing.

SPEAKER_01 51:35

You want to fuck? Do you want to have fun?

SPEAKER_04 51:37

Yeah, I do not want to stop and think because if I'm doing that, then it goes makes me go too serious.

SPEAKER_01 51:41

Right. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 51:42

It's like, what I just want to whatever's coming next.

SPEAKER_01 51:46

We had fun. I got some good video of that. We had some really sexy times. That was we had some performance issues that night.

SPEAKER_04 51:52

Yeah, yeah. Again, it happens. Okay, it happens. And I think and we say that in our like pre-car our conversation before we play is happens. Hey, we know this happens. There could be a lot of fun.

SPEAKER_01 52:02

And I want to take a real quick pause there just to say, hey, this is a bigger thing, I think, than people realize is performance anxiety for guys around the lifestyle. Like, just because you want your dick to be hard doesn't mean it's going to be. So, you know, just recognize that if you're a guy listening, it's gonna happen. If you're a girl listening, it's nothing against you. Yep, it's going to happen, and that's okay.

SPEAKER_04 52:26

He wants to do well. Yeah, that's a lot of pressure. That's right.

SPEAKER_01 52:33

But so we we've done that. So we've had uh four total experiences with single guys right now, two one the same guy twice.

SPEAKER_04 52:42

Um and maybe one tomorrow. I don't know. Maybe one tomorrow. Got another one lined up.

SPEAKER_01 52:48

Yeah, so I'm I I joke, but I'm also serious. Like I'm trying to build a little stable of options, or whatever.

SPEAKER_04 52:58

I like to think of it more like a sports metaphor, like who's on the who's on the bench? Right. Who's going in next?

SPEAKER_01 53:03

So I want to build, you know, some of that so we have some options and you know, flexibility. Because honestly, like some days it's like it's Sunday and we're feeling horny, and I want to call up a single guy and say, What you doing? Yeah, come on over. Let's you know, have some fun.

SPEAKER_04 53:15

Yeah, you got nothing to do, come on over.

SPEAKER_01 53:18

But overall, like we've enjoyed those experiences.

SPEAKER_04 53:21

Which has been like we did not set out not anyway. This was like, oh. Um, so just speaks to being open script of like you think it has to be a certain way. It's like, uh, maybe be open and think about what I maybe it's not uh a yes right now. It may be.

SPEAKER_01 53:43

And I think it's important to this is the hard part, but it is important to be able to have those conversations. Like you may not want to do a thing, but allow your partner to at least express that desire. Maybe you think about that, maybe you don't, maybe shut it down. But there's nothing wrong with like having the conversation around it and leaving space for people, your partner and you to talk about your desires, your wants, your fantasies, all of that. Like make that normal, help normalize that. Yeah, we wouldn't have gotten here if we didn't have a conversation around it. And I'm thankful that your peer said, watch this video. Right. That got us there, it really did. Because I never even thought that I would want that. And I heard you talking about that. I'm like, oh, that sounds hot. Oh, yeah, yeah, so that was

Respect, Profiles, And Better Messages

SPEAKER_01 54:31

good. So if you're interested, if you're out there interested, single guys, like it is some work to try to find the right one to approach or whatever.

SPEAKER_04 54:40

I do want to like have this, and I I am I'm stealing the show a little bit. Go they're people.

SPEAKER_00 54:46

That's hard to think about that sometimes. I'm like, I just want somebody with a dick to come over, like, don't talk, just fuck, like right. But they are people.

SPEAKER_04 54:55

I get that.

SPEAKER_00 54:55

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_04 54:56

Everybody kind of it's like they're people, they have feelings, they don't want to be. I mean, maybe some want to be used. Maybe that's a totally valid feeling. I want to be used. But some want to be treated with like dignity, respect, respect, which we will always do, regardless of that. We will we will. That's just how we operate. But it's yeah, like they don't want to be ghosted. Do you want to be ghosted? They don't want to be talked about like they're not human, not like do you? Like, like, think about that. Yeah, there's some that can be like say stupid shit. Yeah, don't have you ever said something stupid, like, yes, they don't have a wingman or wingwoman to say, hey, it's uh cut it out, or maybe you shouldn't put that much cologne on. Like they don't have that second person, right?

SPEAKER_01 55:47

It is hard. I have to remind myself of that all the time. Like, it's a human, they have feelings, they have desires, they have wants, they have all of that. Yeah, and so they're not just a toy.

SPEAKER_04 55:56

It takes a lot of courage for somebody, even like a couple, but for a single person to put themselves out there with a couple. Yep, that's right. I cannot imagine that.

SPEAKER_01 56:09

Yeah, so shout out to all the single guys out there. That's right. Be respectful. I would also say for single guys out there, for us, like read people's profiles, like read it. If you're gonna reach out to somebody, read their profile, make a comment on it.

SPEAKER_04 56:26

If you really want a chance, you need to do a little bit of homework.

SPEAKER_01 56:30

Yeah, that's the guys that have written. Beat everyone else out. And even if it's it's the guys that have written me that show that they've read the profile, whether we're interested in them or not, you're gonna get a response. If you're just like, hey, sexy wife, uh, delete, go away, no, thank you.

SPEAKER_04 56:48

That it sounds like spam.

SPEAKER_01 56:49

If you want to be part of that environment, like show people that you actually care and are interested, and you will probably get a little bit more successful.

SPEAKER_03 56:59

So if you're a single guy and you might be interested, let me know.

SPEAKER_01 57:06

That's right. We have a knowledge.

SPEAKER_03 57:08

This is my PSA.

SPEAKER_01 57:09

That's right.

Final Takeaways And Goodbye

SPEAKER_01 57:10

All right, so that wraps up this segment on single guys. We'll come back and wrap up the show in just a minute. Thanks for listening, and all you single guys out there, thanks for what you did.

SPEAKER_03 57:19

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 57:23

Thanks for listening. And I'm Trinity.

SPEAKER_01 57:27

I'm Neil. This wraps up episode nine.

SPEAKER_04 57:30

And we'll catch you on the next episode until then.

SPEAKER_01 57:32

Stay sexy, people.

SPEAKER_04 57:34

Bye.