Welcome And Adult Ground Rules

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This is unplugged and turned on, where we drop the masks, challenge the rules, and explore what connection, desire, and relationships really look like beneath the surface. This is an adult podcast and is not intended for anyone under the age of 18. So if you're under 18, go find something else to listen to. I'm Neil.

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And I'm Trinity. And together we're getting into the real stuff: attraction, intimacy, communication, and the moments that actually create chemistry.

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No scripts, no pretending. Just honest conversations about what turns us on. Mentally, emotionally, and physically. So go ahead. Unplug a little.

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And let's turn something on. Hi everybody. This is Neo. And I'm Trinity. And this is episode 13. I think last time I said it was episode 11 when it was really 12. I'm trying to get things right, but who knows? And who cares?

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One, two, skip a few. 99 a hundred. I love that.

unknown 1:18

Yeah.

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Keep going. Who cares? Any more of those? Uh now you put me on a spot. I've got a zero, zero of those.

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All right. So today we're going to do just something a little bit different. We've got some new expansion cards for a lifestyle deck that we have. And we're just kind of, I think, keep it chill tonight and ask each other questions and see where this goes.

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I thought it would be I opened the pack up and started reading the first card. I thought this would be fun to do on a podcast. And we have not looked, I looked at one card and then we put them away. Like, nope, we have not looked through the cards. We have no idea. So here we go. Hopefully, I don't make a total ass of myself.

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Who cares? Like you said in the tags. We've only got one listener anyway. So that's yeah, right.

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Thank you. Thank you so much. Thank you. All right, so let's have fun. You know who you are.

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Say it again like that.

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You know who you are.

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Oh, there we go. See, that's I know we have two listeners for sure. We have at least two because I've spoken to them. I think we have three that I know of. Okay.

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Okay, let me count on my my do some um math on my toes.

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We take my shoes off.

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All right. Uh who's starting it? Who's kicking us off?

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Girl, the lifestyle's run by the women, apparently. They keep hearing that.

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So I'm so I've been told. She go first. Okay.

Turn-Ons, Lights, And Grooming

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Uh what is a surefire way to turn you on?

SPEAKER_02 2:53

Hmm. Interesting. I think confidence in a woman is what turns me on the most. And I think what surprised me about some of that is like you have the picture in your mind about who you think is sexy, and then that changes based on just how a person shows up. And I love that. So for me, like if you want to start getting me going out there, ladies, if we ever see you out there and about, like confidence, like go after what you want. And I like that. Yeah.

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Okay. And I'm gonna I I guess the assumption is we're gonna keep this lifestyle context.

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Yeah. Yeah. I know what turns you on, baby, but what turns you on in the lifestyle?

SPEAKER_00 3:42

Um I would say um how um a partner treats their partner like with the respect. That seems like that's that's that can be a turn on of like being really um thoughtful and and yeah, courteous. That's a turn on. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 4:04

Cool. So it's my turn now. Is that it?

SPEAKER_00 4:07

Yes, that's yes. Yes, Bob.

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Okay, so do you prefer having sex with the lights on or off?

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On.

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Like hundreds of on.

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Yeah. Yeah. Because I think for me, like part of the fun is visual. Like, yeah, I want to see I want to see what masterpiece I'm working with here.

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Yeah, absolutely.

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Also looking at each other. Yeah, like that's um I like to look into your eyes, yeah, see see what's going on.

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Yeah, and I think we've always done that, even just you and me in our marriage. Like, it's always been lights on. That's what we've always preferred. I think in the lifestyle, like I like lights on too, but I think I also like all of the mood lighting, you know what I mean?

SPEAKER_00 4:57

I was thinking that too. Yeah.

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Yeah, because we even do that in our own room now, is you know, it's the lights are still on sexy time.

SPEAKER_00 5:05

They're they're just not harsh. Because I think for me, environmentally, it can't just be this harsh, like I don't know, fluorescent lights. Like, no, we're not the gynecologist office. We though it's like, okay, sensual, sense using our senses.

SPEAKER_02 5:26

Gynacological office, though. That sounds pretty hot. It always has. Like, I've always wanted a like what a what a great job. And then you realize it's probably not.

SPEAKER_00 5:40

I would say no. Okay. What level? I'm gonna say this in a sexy voice. This is not a sexy question. What level of grooming? Maybe it could be sexy. What level of grooming do you like? Fully bare, a little patch, but mostly smooth or o natural?

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I think I am A, B, and maybe some of C. Like smooth is good, a little patch is good, right?

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I know somebody.

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Uh-huh. And mostly smooth is good too. I think oh natural, no, not really. And that's more because even in our sexual relationship, like growing up, um, and all the years spent doing what I love to do, which is being down below, like the hairs in my teeth are not something that I enjoy. Yep, there were things that I dealt with, and that was fine. It didn't necessarily turn me off, but it's so much nicer, I think, not having to worry about that. And then I think like just being me and orally and like to put things in my mouth and lick things, like the smooth texture of a pussy is so much nicer than dealing with the hair down there. But to each his own, for me, I like it smoother.

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So um, there's a like a um like a nuance I want to like ask about is what if it's au naturel but tidy? Is it s does your answer still apply because Yeah, because you kept it tidy, right?

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So I'd still prefer less hair down there. Okay. Yeah.

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Wherever your mouth is gonna go, like sand's hair, like no hair.

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I think so. Like, you know, I don't think it would uh I don't think having hair down there would prevent me from playing with somebody, but I definitely prefer minimal hair down there.

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Okay, so I'm gonna keep going.

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Keep going, pull the thread or the hair.

SPEAKER_00 7:47

Ah no, don't don't don't pull. Um sorry, I had to use those. Uh and dye too. My understanding is that the current trend is that our natural is back. Yep. What are your thoughts on that?

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Uh do what makes you happy. Okay. I still prefer if I'm gonna be down there, I would like less hair.

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Your preference is your preference.

SPEAKER_02 8:19

Yeah, but I'm not gonna tell anybody what they should or shouldn't do. Like women shave your armpits, don't shave your armpits. I don't care. Like what you want to do, do. What I prefer in my mouth is what I prefer in my mouth.

SPEAKER_00 8:30

Oh, that's good. Um, for me, um wow, I think um foley bears, okay. Um, a little patch, uh, fine. A natural, okay, as long as it's tidied up. Again, I don't want a mouthful of hair either. But if you have body hair, I feel like that is how we are created and made. And if you want to have hair, keep your hair. Um, like for me, I have a little bit of hair because I do not want to be totally bare. I want to still represent a woman. Thank you. Thank you very much. Thank you very much. And women have hair.

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You may get some more sound effects.

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I I call it my soul patch, but I love your soul patch.

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It's a soul patch. It absolutely is.

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Yeah. I don't know how you can request that when you get it waxed or lasered, but I call mine a soul patch. Yeah.

Almost Getting Caught And Keeping Sex Alive

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Have you ever been caught having sex?

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Um, caught. Hmm. So I'm assuming like you didn't intend to get caught, maybe.

SPEAKER_02 10:00

Um yeah, having sex somewhere and somebody opens up the door or whatever. I'm guessing that's what that means.

SPEAKER_00 10:06

I'm gonna say no. I don't recall anything like that. That seems like it would be traumatizing. I do not remember anything like that.

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Yeah.

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Do you have a different recollection?

SPEAKER_02 10:18

No, I'm just trying to think, like, for us, like, I don't know. I've never been caught having sex like before you.

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We were almost caught recently.

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Tell me, tell me more.

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We were in the living room, and oh my god.

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Jesus. Shut up. Anyway. Yeah, I remember.

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Anyway.

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And then I realized that the front door wasn't vacuum.

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Yeah, we're like, the front door is locked, right? Yeah. Yeah, of course it is. I always locked it up. It wasn't, and we were expecting someone to visit us at some point, and they came in, and we were fortunately.

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I had, you know, an alert from the front door camera with just enough time to throw some clothes on and pretend that we were just watching TV.

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Yes, because we're boring.

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So there was that.

SPEAKER_00 11:09

Well, that's all we do is watch TV. But I still think and maybe that's a whole different thing. I mean, maybe like as parents, us being parents, maybe I don't think so.

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We were wrestling.

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I'd I think that's a good thing.

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I do remember something about wrestling, like talking about wrestling.

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Yeah, I don't think that's just typical that it didn't matter. If you got kids, you know, you know the drill.

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And we didn't have sex after that for a long time. Yeah. Right. Yeah, right. Okay, really, that was both of our answers. So now your turn.

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Do you like spontaneous sex or do you like it to be somewhat planned?

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I like sex in all its forms. I think if I had to choose between the two though, I don't know. Spontaneous is pretty damn fun and hot. Um planned can planned can absolutely be the same. Um, you know, we've talked about this quite a lot. I think planned can for me maybe add a little bit of pressure, but I think at the same time, what I've found, and we've talked about a little bit, is as you get into something, whether it's planned or not, that's when your body starts coming alive. So planned is is probably just as good. It's hard for me to pick between the two. Um, spontaneous can be fun, planned can absolutely be awesome. I think it's all about where you're at in your headspace at any given time, though.

SPEAKER_00 12:49

Wow, that was pretty a deep answer.

SPEAKER_02 12:53

I talk out of both sides of my mouth. I don't know. But I like sex, so there you go. One way or the other. Three answers, yes. Yes, please.

SPEAKER_00 13:04

I I um I think there's I I like them both, yes. I like the somewhat planned that way my mind, I can get my mind there and kind of build up the anticipation.

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Yeah.

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Um I think I like that. Like if we and I are kind of or whoever, we're texting back and forth and kind of building that. I think that's kind of um that can be hot, um, spontaneous. Yeah, like I look at it like the outcome is the same. Amazing.

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I agree.

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And uh yes, yeah, awesome.

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Yeah.

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Um, I do I do not think that planned, because I've heard this before, like, oh, planned, what a drag. You gotta plan it. Like you're protecting it at time. I it might seem like it's a drag, but I like I liked I like knowing that it's coming.

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I also would say like planned sex is better than no sex at all. So there you go, especially if you got kids in the house, like planned may be the only thing you get. And yeah, I used like we didn't we didn't necessarily stick to it, but I liked I used to have it on the calendar like every week or two, like booty Tuesday or whatever it was, like it was on the calendar, and at least you get to think about it. Um like you said, it builds a little bit of anticipation.

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Well, also knowing that oh, we're doing this tomorrow, at least like now where we are in our life, like oh, we can like we can really plan some quality time around this. So awesome.

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Yeah, yeah. Okay. Did I uh what was the question?

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Uh that was my question about spontaneous. Oh, yeah, that's right.

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I answered it because I said yes.

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Exactly.

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Okay, so I already know the answer to this, but I'm gonna ask you anyways.

One Bed Versus Two In Group Play

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When playing in a foursome in a hotel room, would you rather have one king bed or two queens?

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One king bed. Uh, we learned early on, our first experience um was on two queens, and it's just uh we want to be together, um kind of spaghetti making spaghetti, like everybody kind of just flowing and moving around. When you're on two separate beds, it's very separate, yeah, contained. Yeah, that's my answer.

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Yeah. And that's really our answer. That's what we found the first time. I still think um, you know, at some point we we might try two queen beds and see how that goes, but at the same time, like right now, where we're at, the touching spaghetti pile, all of that stuff is is really where we're at, and we do like that. Doesn't say again, like we wouldn't try anything in the future, but definitely where we're at right now, spaghetti pile. Because we like to be connected to each other and we also like to see what's going on with each other, and it's harder to do when you're in two separate groups.

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So if like you and I are gonna jump back to each other, like we're right there. Yeah. Or I'm gonna reach over and touch somebody, like they're right there. Right. Instead of like this two and two. It's right.

SPEAKER_02 16:25

Oh no, it's and each partner can reach over and touch their partner while they're doing things and you know stay connected that way. So yeah.

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Yeah.

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I I can see the kind of the, I wasn't gonna say the value, but um benefit of the two separate beds in the same room being like you can focus on the partner you're with. And that might kind of ease any like feelings of overwhelm because you're with your partner. For us, it was our first experience when we did that. And so it was like constantly trying to break in my neck to see like what's happening over there, and like what's happening over here. So I remember talking about it like, whoa, what's going on? What's going on? What's going on? Just because it was our very first time. Yeah, but I feel more confident now, so maybe a different um like uh experience for us. I don't know. Yeah, we're open to that. We'll see.

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Okay, your turn.

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That's me.

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Yes, ma'am.

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Okay.

MFM, FMF, And What Feels Easier

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Which sexual scenario would you prefer?

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Yes.

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M F M or FMF?

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I still like the MFM. Um did we do you would you consider the one experience we had FMF? No, I it is too brief. It was like two minutes.

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Yeah, once when the male uh partner went to their restroom. No.

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Yeah.

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I I if you really wanted to like get technical, but I got like three minutes of that experience.

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It was fun. I enjoyed that. I still think I like the MFM dynamic because joking or not, like I can tap out for a little bit and watch or go get a drink or whatever, and the other guy can as well. And I I also think that, again, my opinion only, like women have more capacity than guys. I think if it was M FMF, like there's only so much I can do. And then if I start wearing out when, like for you, you're not by, we're done. What are the two ladies gonna do? But wait for me to recover.

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Yeah, we're gonna take a break, go get a snack.

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Right.

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Yeah.

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Yeah. And and you'd be like, is that all you got? And it's like, my energy is being depleted two times faster now. So yeah, that's all I got.

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You're like, I only have one mouth. Yeah. Sorry.

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Yeah.

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Um yeah, I don't know. We've only had the MFM experience, so it's hard to say um what I'd prefer because I'm like, I don't know, that's been good. Um, we haven't had the um the FMF experience. So it's really hard for me to give like a complete answer to that. I've enjoyed the I'm trying to be really careful. M F M. I really enjoyed that. That's been really good for the points that you've listed. Um, also, I'm a receiver and a giver, but like I don't have to, it's an easier on the mind to you don't have to worry about the other person and the other connection. Yeah. So the other person and the other connection.

SPEAKER_02 19:47

Yeah, absolutely. Um, you know, and I also think on the FMF side, like I don't know how many, because ultimately I think that's talking about unicorns, like how many unicorns out there are not bi. So what are they looking for?

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Or willing besides FFM, but still because you can be bi and still not play bisexually. Yep. You can just say, oh, this is just not the dynamic we're doing right now.

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It's like, what are you more interested in? So that yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah. Okay. So what you got? What you got for me?

Boundaries, Hard No’s, And Bodily Fluids

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Anything you won't do in bed.

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Um, yeah.

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Oh, what is that?

SPEAKER_00 20:28

Hold on. Let me get my list.

SPEAKER_02 20:31

She's just kidding.

SPEAKER_00 20:33

I'm just kidding. There's anything I won't do in bed? Um, it depends on who I'm with. You have like lot more openness. Yeah, there's less limits for you. Um, just because of trust and my comfort level. For others, yeah, there's definitely a list.

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Okay.

SPEAKER_02 20:56

Am I supposed to say um give some examples?

SPEAKER_00 20:58

Um I'm not I'm not into pain at all. So this goes with for you as well. Um, so anything that's pain related, any kind of impact play? No. Like a little, like, yeah, receiving reasons. Yeah, I can I'm learning to be more the giver. Yeah. To yeah, to provide that for someone for but I feel like that's a little different too. But for me, um yeah, it's no spitting. That's just absolutely disgusting. Like just because you've seen it on porn does not mean that someone wants that. That is no. Um, anal, absolutely not. Um with others. Yeah, with others. Um, you pee on me, that'll be the last pee you have. Um, I'm just kidding. Uh I I don't even know if that's even happening.

SPEAKER_02 21:56

Kidding, not kidding.

SPEAKER_00 21:57

Kidding, not yeah. I mean it.

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Okay.

SPEAKER_00 22:01

Um, but it's pretty that's kind of extreme. Okay. Um, yeah. Pain. Stay away from pain.

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Pain is a big one for you.

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Including hair pulling.

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Like I'm still trying to figure out how I do it.

SPEAKER_00 22:13

I don't think everyone knows how to do it. One, I don't want it done, but I don't think people know how to do it. And I'm like, uh no, that's not what no, that's a no.

SPEAKER_02 22:23

Yeah, I still kind of hope that I can figure out the right way to do that.

SPEAKER_00 22:28

Oh, I'll demonstrate it for you.

SPEAKER_02 22:31

You can't demo it on me though.

SPEAKER_00 22:33

No, on me. I can, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 22:35

Yeah, because there's ways to do it, I think, that would be okay and that would not cause you pain. And also good for me.

SPEAKER_00 22:42

Close to the root. Yeah. You can't just pull someone's hair. Like. Yeah. I feel like someone does that, you're gonna get a slap.

SPEAKER_02 22:50

Yeah, because it's gonna be an instant reaction. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 22:52

Yeah. No pain. Yeah. So that's my um a a few of my stuff, my things. Sure. Um, what was the question again?

SPEAKER_02 23:00

Is there anything you won't do in bed? I think you answered.

SPEAKER_00 23:04

I there's more, but yeah, that's a good start.

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There's a list.

SPEAKER_00 23:07

Yeah, but uh for me, there they are irrational. They are rational. I wanted to make sure I enunciated that. They make sense for me.

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Yeah.

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And to me.

SPEAKER_02 23:20

Okay, so is there anything that I won't do in bed? I don't think there's a lot that I won't do. I think the only thing that really sticks out about what won't you do, that is uh. I'm trying to figure out the right words. I've probably lost it, but I think bodily fluid, like who play and pee play. Like, no, that's not for me.

SPEAKER_00 23:45

But you don't mind the um the squirting.

SPEAKER_02 23:48

The squirting, no. I mean, yes, I get it. Whatever people say it's pee, it's pea mixed with stuff, whatever that is. That's fine.

SPEAKER_00 23:57

I'm talking more about like golden.

SPEAKER_02 23:59

It's fairy dust. I'm talking about like golden showers. No, I don't think I'm interested in that unless what is it? I have a stingray bite. Oh, I think so.

SPEAKER_00 24:08

I learned that that's like a bunch of hooey.

SPEAKER_02 24:11

That's not a thing, but yeah. I it would probably be worth a shot if my foot was on fire. And I'd probably let you do that. Why not? It wouldn't be sexy though, not in my bed. So poo, pee play, whatever you want to do. So no fecal matter. And then beyond that, I will know it when I don't like it, but I'm okay with all of it.

SPEAKER_00 24:34

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 24:34

Yeah.

unknown 24:36

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 24:36

All right, your turn. It's right. We don't know what we don't know yet. Yep. Yeah.

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And I'm a yes till I'm a no, so there you go.

Who We Tell About The Lifestyle

SPEAKER_00 24:44

Have you ever told anyone that you're in the lifestyle or consensually non-monogamous? If not, do you enjoy keeping it a secret?

SPEAKER_02 24:57

Hmm, I have only told my primary care physician one time because we were trying to get um HPV. HPV, thank you. I want I was gonna say BV, and I'm like, no, I wasn't trying to get BV. No, you can't get BV.

SPEAKER_00 25:15

Well, you might you might be able to do that.

SPEAKER_02 25:17

HPV shot, we were trying to get that, and we had such a struggle because of our age getting that shot. Um, and then I'm just like, hey, this is why I want it. And instantly was like, oh, okay, great, we'll get that for you. Beyond that, no, I haven't told anybody. Would I be open to telling somebody about that? I don't really know. I kind of like the secret of it because I know that if people who know me found out about that, they would be shocked because I've always been kind of like the good boy. And I kind of have like having this whole secret, like, if you only knew kind of life, right? Um at this at the other underestimated. That's right. And then the flip side of that is uh I don't necessarily like hiding it and hiding who I am, and and I think sharing it with others can also open people's minds, I think, and encourage them to like think for themselves too. But for now, only my primary care provider.

SPEAKER_00 26:19

Hmm, that's interesting.

SPEAKER_02 26:20

Yeah. Um I still think our kids kind of they suspect.

SPEAKER_00 26:26

I just don't think they're gonna be surprised.

SPEAKER_02 26:28

They're not gonna they're not.

SPEAKER_00 26:29

They're gonna be disappointed, but they won't be surprised.

SPEAKER_02 26:31

I don't know if they'd be disappointed. I think they would just be like, you guys are not talking about yes. You guys are weird. Okay, go ahead.

SPEAKER_00 26:37

Um, I have my answer is no and no. Next question. Oh my god. Oh my gosh. Have I told anyone? No. Um and unless they are already in the lifestyle, so that's a like a duh. Um no duh. Um, do I enjoy keeping it a secret? No, I hate that. Absolutely hate it. I am I like to be honest, and I don't like tr keeping track of baloney in my head. Like, okay, what am I supposed to what am I supposed to say? What's going on? Um, I just like to be as is. You see what you you get what what is that saying? You get what you see?

SPEAKER_02 27:23

Yeah, what you see is what you get.

SPEAKER_00 27:24

What you see is what you get, thank you. And this makes it difficult for me, so I don't enjoy that at all.

SPEAKER_02 27:29

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 27:30

I do not think it's sexy or fun, or I think it's like uh an obstacle that is just um uncomfortable.

SPEAKER_02 27:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 27:43

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 27:45

And I ladder don't.

SPEAKER_00 27:46

I know. I'm like,

Multi-Orgasm Reality And Tantra Ideas

SPEAKER_00 27:48

okay.

SPEAKER_02 27:48

Um multi-orgasmic, or is one good one enough?

SPEAKER_00 27:56

This is easy for me to answer.

SPEAKER_02 27:58

It's gonna be just a question though. Nah, how is it weird? How is it a weird question? Because it's like, are you multi-orgasmic? Yes.

SPEAKER_00 28:10

I am absolutely. I could go and go and go. Like the only thing that's gonna make me stop is like I just I am exhausted.

SPEAKER_02 28:18

And then, but the other question of that is, or is one good one enough?

SPEAKER_00 28:21

And it's like Oh yeah, those are two different questions.

SPEAKER_02 28:24

It's like, is one good one enough?

SPEAKER_00 28:26

Do you have one and you have to stop, or can you keep going?

SPEAKER_02 28:30

Right. Maybe the questions should be more like are you multi-orgasmic or do you tend to only have one and then you're done?

SPEAKER_00 28:36

I like that. That's better.

SPEAKER_02 28:37

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 28:38

I am multi, and sometimes I'm like I just get greedy with my pleasure, and I don't I don't know. I'm okay.

SPEAKER_01 28:46

Right, last night I love that. It was example.

SPEAKER_00 28:49

I just I'm gonna keep taking, I'm gonna keep going. Like if you want to go um do something else, right?

SPEAKER_02 28:56

See ya. You gonna go read? Go ahead. I'm not done yet. And and I love that. And I think what I love about that for you too is like I don't even know sometimes, like you won't necessarily be done, but we'll be laying there and I'll maybe take a break and then I'll touch you or put fingers in you or whatever, and then you're there like again, like immediately. Like you can ride that high for a little bit, and I've I love that.

SPEAKER_00 29:20

What I as a guy I'm fucking jealous, but oh I'm I I can see I can see that. Um like yeah, being envious of just having that um the option. But like for me, like the first one is the hardest to get to. Yeah, there's so much of the tension that has to build and to get there, but then it's less and less, it takes less for subsequent um orgasms. And it doesn't for me, I don't think it matters what type it is or where it's what uh where it's coming from. It's like once it's there, it's like I I have access and I can keep going. It's like a wave. Yeah. And I know not everyone can experiences that, and I um I feel like I'm fortunate for that.

SPEAKER_02 30:06

Yeah. But I don't even think you found out that you were multi-orgasmic until like a year ago.

SPEAKER_00 30:12

Yeah, a year or two years ago.

SPEAKER_02 30:13

Yeah, so you missed out on all that. So we're just making up for last time.

SPEAKER_00 30:16

Yeah, just waking up.

SPEAKER_02 30:17

That's right.

SPEAKER_00 30:18

Waking up for yeah, making up for lost time. I'm like waking up. I am also waking up, yeah. Making and waking.

SPEAKER_02 30:26

So am I multi-orgasmic or is one good one enough? I don't think I have much choice in that. Like, I feel like most guys are single orgasmic. Now, recovery time is a whole different topic. Like, can you come again? Can you can he sh can Thor show up again? Um, but I still don't know. I don't consider that multi-orgasmic. I think if I have a break of 30 minutes and I'm going again and I'm excited, sure, I can probably have another orgasm, but it's nothing in comparison to you, where those orgasms can come like 30 seconds in between them, two two minutes in between them, three minutes in between them. Like for me, no, you you gotta have recovery time. So am I is one good one enough? Yeah, absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 31:14

You're like, that's what I that's what's prescribed.

SPEAKER_03 31:18

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 31:19

So I I'm curious about um what we've learned um of like the ejaculation and orgasm can does not have to happen at the same time. It often does for gentlemen, often does, yeah, but they are two distinct actions that often they're associated with each other because often they occur at the same time. But men supposedly, according to Tantra or Sacred Sexuals, um, is that you can still have orgasms without ejaculating.

SPEAKER_02 31:56

I'm still waiting to find that out.

SPEAKER_00 32:00

We need to do some more practice. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 32:04

I'm game, but I have yet to see that.

SPEAKER_00 32:06

We've got to take a whole week off. We need some more time off.

SPEAKER_02 32:11

All right. Your turn.

SPEAKER_00 32:14

Oh,

Hottest Foursome Setups And Foreplay

SPEAKER_00 32:16

this is gonna take your mind to be creative. I'm gonna struggle with this question. Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_01 32:21

But I'm deal with that.

SPEAKER_00 32:23

What do you think would be the hottest sexual position for a poor sum?

SPEAKER_02 32:34

Um, I still think I like I don't know that this will happen for us ever, but uh I still think one of the hottest positions in my mind is me fucking you from behind you again, this is where it won't happen. Your face in a pussy, and then the other guy is who's his cock is in the woman that you're eating the pussy. So I guess in reality, like like a daisy chain sort of situation. Absolutely. The other the flip side of that is okay, so it knowing that you're not by and you're not gonna go down on somebody, like me fucking you, you sucking a dick, and then the other wife uh straddling the face of her partner, like all connected. That's yeah, that's hot to me. Okay, or you know, vice versa, like you sitting on my face while I while I'm getting a blowjob, while the person giving me a blowjob is getting fucked. Like, that's hot. We're all connected.

SPEAKER_00 33:40

Yeah, yeah, that's a good yeah. I didn't think of that one. The one that popped into my head, I'm just trying to think of uh like I'm trying to do the math here, like okay, you got one person here. Um one that I thought of would be um woman um like in cowgirl. It doesn't matter which way forward facing or not, the other straddling um face. So two women on one dude.

SPEAKER_01 34:15

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 34:16

Okay. And the one that's on someone's face, or the whatever one of the women are is giving a blowjob to the other guy.

SPEAKER_02 34:26

Okay, so I'm the guy on the bed.

SPEAKER_00 34:29

Yeah, so you can't.

SPEAKER_02 34:30

You're riding me, she's on my face, and she's sucking her partner's yeah, or I'm turned around the other way and doing the same thing.

SPEAKER_00 34:38

Oh, yeah. Little reverse cowgirl. Yeah, yeah, all right. So I'm I was thinking of that. There you go. But I I like that second one that you offered. That was interesting.

SPEAKER_02 34:48

Yeah. Monday I'm gonna I still I'm a guy.

SPEAKER_00 34:52

But also, like it doesn't have to all be around. I mean, there could be like kissing and then other stuff, but oh no.

SPEAKER_02 34:59

Yeah, okay, it's not as hot.

SPEAKER_00 35:01

It's not as hot, okay.

SPEAKER_02 35:02

Kissing is the build-up to the real thing.

SPEAKER_00 35:05

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 35:06

How much foreplay do you like? All of it.

SPEAKER_00 35:10

I like a lot of foreplay.

SPEAKER_02 35:12

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 35:13

Like, if that's all we do, I mean, I consider that soft soft, I guess. Soft swapping.

SPEAKER_02 35:21

But I agree with that though. I think soft swap is foreplay.

SPEAKER_00 35:25

Like, yes, it is, but it's also soft swap is still sex. Um, I like even if it's like um hand sex, hand sex is still sex. Um, I love foreplay, love it. Like I I love dick, but if everyone's dick fell off or was not functioning as according that they wanted to. Um, like some be like, uh dick didn't want to come out and play today. Like, that's okay.

SPEAKER_02 35:59

You have foreplay is amazing.

SPEAKER_00 36:03

Who's gonna say no to that? Maybe some people would say no, but um, I think you could have a sexual experience that is just that and is amazing. It's great.

SPEAKER_02 36:12

Yeah, absolutely. I love that.

SPEAKER_00 36:15

Is that your answer?

SPEAKER_02 36:17

How much foreplay do I like? Yeah, well, like I'm uh I'm very much a giver, so I like as much foreplay as my partner wants. Like I could I could spend the night and enjoy it a hundred percent just going down on you, using my fingers on you, all of that. And if you had 20 orgasms, like that would be an amazing night if it if that's as far as it progressed. So I absolutely I love a lot of foreplay. For me, I think like when my dick is hard as can be, I don't need any more foreplay, and I just want to fuck something. So I you know, I love a lot of foreplay. I don't necessarily need a lot of foreplay, but I love it because I as a giver, that's who I am.

SPEAKER_00 37:05

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 37:05

Do I make sense or is that you think I'm coping enough?

SPEAKER_00 37:09

I am like, I want to push back a little bit. Go ahead. Um, because like that's cool that you're a giver, but oftentimes your partner's gonna want to give too. Yeah. Sure. So, like, how is that do you still enjoy foreplay when you are receiving?

SPEAKER_02 37:32

I do. I think you know me, like I still struggle in the receiving part, so I'm probably more in my head as I'm receiving during foreplay. But that's also like oral, right? Like kissing and all that stuff. Like, I absolutely love that.

SPEAKER_00 37:50

Because I like to give, and if I don't get uh an opportunity to, then like it kind of sucks because I like I take pleasure from giving and receiving. Yeah, and I yeah, it's it's a bummer when it doesn't happen.

SPEAKER_02 38:07

I think I love I I do enjoy it. Like, who doesn't like a good blowjob and a good hand job and all of that stuff? I think it's more about for me at least, like, are you really you've been doing this for 10 minutes. You don't have to do it longer. Are you doing it because you want to do it or because you think like it needs to keep going? So I that's where I struggle a little bit in my head is when it gets to a certain point, are you trying to produce a result or are you just enjoying yourself done?

SPEAKER_00 38:39

No, I get that. And also I can see that playing into like if you're not fully erect, possibly or the person's not fully erect, and some in in the woman's like working on trying that, it's like like it's gonna help anyway. It's not going to help, probably. Yeah. Um, gonna go the other way, right? So it's to hide because it needs safety. Yeah, and I can see that would be more pressure, more could be, could be some uh it I'm just not everyone's that way, but it could be more pressure.

SPEAKER_03 39:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 39:17

But I just want you and other gentlemen to know women like to give. We don't all feel like we have to, and it's like, oh, this is and I go back to like the script, this is what you're supposed to do. I like to give, I like to receive, but I like to give, like yeah, like 50-50. All right, don't deny me this.

SPEAKER_02 39:48

There you go. Your turn.

SPEAKER_00 39:52

Oh. I'm like, my turn again? Typical, typical Trinity. All right.

Orgasm Timing Plus Funny Sex Memories

SPEAKER_00 39:58

On average Oh, get your get your timer out.

SPEAKER_01 40:03

Okay, I got it.

SPEAKER_00 40:04

On average, how long does it take you to reach orgasm?

unknown 40:12

It depends.

SPEAKER_02 40:14

Yeah, it really does depend. Like, have you been drinking? Are you in a live stream situation, all this stuff? Like, there's so much that goes into it. This question if I go into the bathroom and watch some porn, how long does it take me to watch to reach orgasm? Three minutes. I mean, like, that's the joke around like hotel movies and stuff, is you only watch this movie for four minutes. Well, yeah, okay. Because you're reaching a goal. If it's you and me playing, it could be anywhere from like 15 minutes to an hour and a half, like it just depends. But I think also the whole thing around that is coming back to terms with that in itself doesn't have to be the goal. Like, there's a whole lot of fun and a whole lot of pleasure in just sex, and if you don't have an orgasm, you still have great sex.

SPEAKER_00 41:09

Yeah, you will later.

SPEAKER_02 41:11

Yeah, so I think my my average, if I had to like guess 20 minutes, I would say that. And there's a lot longer, there's a lot.

SPEAKER_00 41:23

Yeah, you I think you pace yourself, like yeah, with B when we're together.

SPEAKER_02 41:28

Well, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 41:28

Yeah, you want to keep it, you don't want to good times the end.

SPEAKER_02 41:31

I'm not there just to have an orgasm, I'm there to like pleasure you and pleasure myself at the same time. So yeah. Yeah. How about you?

SPEAKER_00 41:40

I I like your answer there. Um, if I'm like solo, yeah, right. I'm using like like vibe, something that's vibrating that's beyond human capacity. So of course it's gonna be like quick, yeah, quick-ish. I was quick-ish.

SPEAKER_02 41:59

I want you know, I'm gonna take a oh I'm sorry, I'm gonna break in.

SPEAKER_00 42:03

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 42:04

I remember we had a competition in the car once. Who can have an orgasm for this?

SPEAKER_00 42:10

I forgot about but we were driving, so let's I don't care.

SPEAKER_02 42:14

Like sometimes I do that when I'm driving. Are there other guys that don't? I I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 42:19

I don't know, but I'm just saying you had an extra level of difficulty.

SPEAKER_02 42:22

Okay, but I'm still shocked at how quickly, unless you faked it, and I still don't believe you faked it. I still believe it was real. I can't believe you beat me. Like, I just figure it would have taken you a lot longer.

SPEAKER_00 42:33

Well, I had batteries on my side.

SPEAKER_02 42:35

You did. It was fucking hot too.

SPEAKER_00 42:37

Yeah, I had a machine.

SPEAKER_02 42:38

Okay, sorry, I digress. You are the machine. So for you. I had a machine. So for you, how long on average, and let's just say outside of outside of by okay, outside of masturbation.

SPEAKER_00 42:50

Um which I love watching. I know. Um, you know what this really depends on sometimes it doesn't happen um on how relaxed my body is, kind of my um mindset.

SPEAKER_02 43:12

Well, it's not like it doesn't happen great. It yeah, absolutely, it doesn't always happen for me. But when you do have them.

SPEAKER_00 43:18

Oh man, that's so hard. I I don't know because when we're having sex, I go into like because I am a sensual, um what do they call it? Like the energetic um sexual, and I go like in a trance and I lose all sense of reality, and I have no idea how long.

SPEAKER_03 43:43

Yeah, I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 43:44

Time bends. Um, like honestly, like neo and trinity, I we are in the matrix. I'm bending time. I don't even know that was part of this. But you you probably know better than I do.

SPEAKER_02 43:57

Thirty minutes average. Yeah, just Most of the time, it's a little bit longer.

SPEAKER_00 44:01

You just cannot move and change anything.

SPEAKER_02 44:03

Yeah, I'd say th I say about 30 minutes, you can get there.

SPEAKER_00 44:07

But I would say our very first play experience, my play partner had he brought me to orgasm like so quickly. He was so fucking shocked. I was shocked too. And I'm like, he didn't do anything like special. I just I don't know.

SPEAKER_02 44:24

Well, obviously he did. You just didn't think it was.

SPEAKER_00 44:26

I was like, yeah, it was special, I guess, but like nothing like I was so you can look up on this.

SPEAKER_02 44:35

She's really having orgasm right now.

SPEAKER_00 44:37

Yeah, that the one and only time since, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 44:40

For you. All right.

SPEAKER_00 44:41

So yeah, I want to go back to that. Like, orgasm is not the goal in a play situation. It is not for me, it's not for you.

SPEAKER_02 44:50

No.

SPEAKER_00 44:50

No. We are definitely going to have one later, though.

SPEAKER_02 44:54

Describe a favorite or funny sexual memory. I already know mine, but you're gonna go first.

SPEAKER_00 45:02

Hmm. This is one of those questions that like puts me on the spot. And I'm like, I don't have any sexual memories, um, which is not true.

SPEAKER_02 45:11

Um, I'm gonna go first then, and I'm gonna give you time to think about that one.

SPEAKER_00 45:16

I'm gonna say probably, yeah. I'm gonna say like farting during sex.

SPEAKER_01 45:21

Oh my probably God, that was not that was recently. Was it recently? That was recently, but also queefing.

SPEAKER_00 45:29

And I know like it does happen, but the first time it did, it was like, say what? And I was like, you know what? Doggy style is just it happens sometimes, certain like ankles, it it just doesn't arousal, how much it makes me it still makes me laugh and go like, oh my gosh. But it's like, yeah, whatever. Yeah, that would I was that's my answer. I don't know what you're gonna say.

SPEAKER_02 45:56

My favorite, my favorite's always been my favorite. We lived in we lived overseas for a while.

SPEAKER_00 46:04

Wait, what was the question again?

SPEAKER_02 46:06

Describe your favorite or funny sexual membership. Oh, there's a choice funny. Yeah, because you like funny, so that was good.

SPEAKER_00 46:17

Okay, we'll keep that.

SPEAKER_02 46:18

Okay, my favorite was we lived overseas for a bit, and every night I would always tell Trinity in our whole marriage, like, if you are feeling randy in the middle of the night, wake me up. I think a lot of guys do that. Like, hey, wake me up, I'm here. Doesn't matter what time it is. And this one night you actually took me up on it. I think it was like two in the morning, one in the morning, something. You woke me up and we had amazing sex that night. And that I think will always be my favorite memory because that was when I still like we were still kids in the house, like full parenting mode. And it was the first time where you did that where I felt like okay, she actually likes to have sex, and it was hot, and that will always be my favorite.

SPEAKER_00 47:11

And I want to point out from like card question number two a spontaneous.

SPEAKER_02 47:17

Spontaneous, that's exactly right. Good job. All right, your turn.

Anal Play, New Positions, And Session Length

SPEAKER_00 47:26

Okay, so there's I got some there's some failings on my part on this question. Um I like to read pre-read the question before I say it. Do you enjoy any kind of anal play, either giving or receiving?

SPEAKER_02 47:38

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 47:40

Yeah. Yep. Yep.

SPEAKER_02 47:44

Yes. I love anal play with Trinity. Um, I I I thought it was I forget. I'm not even gonna go into it, but somebody described it like oh yeah, a Wrangler on on Reddit or something. Versus I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 48:04

A sports car or a luxury sedan.

SPEAKER_02 48:07

The sports car being the mouth, luxury sedan being the pussy, and then a cheap Wrangler. And then it's a little rough, like a Wrangler where it's a little rough and always breaking down and not all that great, but you do like to take it out once in a while. Because it is an adventure, yes, it is. Um, so I do like anal play, even hate to say it. Like, well, I don't hate to say it. Like I like it. Like I like it for me too.

SPEAKER_00 48:34

Yeah, yeah. I mean, it's right, it's the prostate's like right there.

SPEAKER_02 48:38

So yeah, but I've never had a prostate orgasm. Like I've tried some of that, and maybe we'll meet somebody that will do that for you. I feel like yeah, but I don't know that anybody does that for me or for a person. It is reaching that spot, and I feel like I've done it, and I okay.

SPEAKER_00 48:59

Okay, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 49:01

So, yes, for me.

SPEAKER_00 49:04

Um, I uh geez, I just smacked my lips into the mic. Um trying to be really aware of that.

SPEAKER_02 49:15

It's not a penis, baby.

SPEAKER_00 49:17

Yeah, me. Okay. Um I surprisingly do, and I say surprisingly, because we did this questionnaire. Oh, Susan, what's her name? Susan Barrett Barrett. Um widely known like in the sex positive community. Um, but she has this like question, like, look, have this printout, like go through this with your partner. You mark it. Um, yes, I'm interested. Um not yet.

SPEAKER_02 49:54

Yeah, it was like yes or not. Or yes, maybe never.

SPEAKER_00 49:58

No, it's not they don't, she just not a never.

SPEAKER_02 50:00

But you get it.

SPEAKER_00 50:01

It was like not yet. And it was like, okay, anal's definitely gonna be a not yet, because I really want to say never, because that's the exit. Things don't go in the exit. I'm sorry, it's not the entrance, it's the exit. Um, but I do like that. Um, I think it to receive, it um enhances um it's just kind of enhancing. And then giving, I have a hang up on that. I absolutely do. I just do it, do it, do. Um I have tried it a couple times with like a finger, um, but I'm really cautious because I don't I know what it's like to be on the receiving end, so I want to make sure that I'm not causing like the Wrangler. I don't want it to be rough, a rough ride. Um, so I want it to be like gentle as possible. Yeah, so I'm really sucky at giving on that. Um, yeah. Okay. Receiving um like a finger is absolutely um having like penetr like like dick. No, it's not my favorite. I don't really care for it that much.

SPEAKER_02 51:14

Yeah, it's just been okay once or twice, but most of the time it's it's not my favorite. Mescal helps.

SPEAKER_00 51:22

Yeah. You super, like super relaxed. I think that's it. You gotta go super slow, like it's a lot of work, like ten times the amount of lube you think you're gonna need. And it's like, you know what? I got this vagina that's ready to go. Why don't we just use that? Yeah.

unknown 51:41

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 51:42

Okay. Name a sexual position you'd like to try.

SPEAKER_00 51:46

I feel like I've tried the ones that I know of, so I don't know when to try unless it's like um some acrobat thing, and then I'm not sure I really want to try that because I'm not really acrobatic.

SPEAKER_01 52:02

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 52:03

That's the answer. That my answer is I don't have one, I guess.

SPEAKER_02 52:07

Okay. My answer, and maybe it's not fair, but it's my answer is still that for you. But it all starts with a D. Oh, D V P or just D P. One of them. But I think it's all the right.

SPEAKER_00 52:25

I'm not interested in that.

SPEAKER_02 52:26

I know you're not. Absolutely not. But that is one that I would like to do.

SPEAKER_00 52:31

Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 52:31

Yeah. Yep. You get your own answer.

SPEAKER_02 52:33

That's damn good.

SPEAKER_01 52:34

You get your own answer.

SPEAKER_02 52:36

And who knows, maybe, maybe, in a given situation, it could be something that you want to try in a moment, but you know, it's like on that list.

SPEAKER_00 52:44

It wasn't on that list, but it could have been not yet.

SPEAKER_02 52:47

That's right.

SPEAKER_00 52:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 52:48

Yeah, because I think you just you said like you just saw that recently when we watched something. You're like, oh, I'd never seen that before. Oh, is that game show one from oh my gosh, what is that called?

SPEAKER_00 53:03

That game show.

SPEAKER_02 53:04

I I forget. It's the German kind of I can't remember. Anyway, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 53:10

Yeah, it's interesting show if you catch that one. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 53:14

Now, go ahead.

SPEAKER_00 53:16

If you had to pick, would you rather a few quickies a week or one long marathon session?

SPEAKER_02 53:24

One long marathon session.

SPEAKER_00 53:26

Really? Really?

SPEAKER_02 53:27

Yeah, quickies are okay, but I still feel like when I have a quickie, usually that means I've had an orgasm. And I feel like that's when you're like, hey, you're tense. Let's fuck and let's get this out of your system and and go. And I feel like I've cheated you in quickies.

SPEAKER_00 53:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 53:45

Because I think quickies, you don't get off. You enjoy them. You've said that.

SPEAKER_00 53:49

Yeah, I enjoy them, but I'm I won't orgasm. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 53:52

So I would like a long marathon session once a week. And that would give me a week to recover.

SPEAKER_00 53:58

Yeah. Yeah. Store store pianity.

SPEAKER_02 54:02

What about you?

SPEAKER_00 54:04

Um, I don't know, because I do like quickies. Um, and I think like having a few during the week can be great like connection and I do like that.

SPEAKER_02 54:19

Um the connection piece is awesome.

SPEAKER_00 54:21

Like kind of tension reduction can be great stress reliever. Yeah. Um, yeah, so I think there's benefit from well, there absolutely is. Aside from orgasm, because we said they're not the goal. Um but if you have between the two. I know you kind of like, hey, this is not fair, and you don't want me to miss out, but like I still have a great time. I know the long marathon session, I gotta say that sometimes it's like I enjoy them. Absolutely. But knowing the amount of time that takes is like, ah, that's a lot of time out of my day.

SPEAKER_01 55:02

Even if you be doing with time.

SPEAKER_00 55:05

Like if we're not doing something, it's like, oh great. But if it's like, hey, we have some things to do today. Well, I get that uh it just seems like that's a lot of pressure.

SPEAKER_02 55:14

How many times is that? I'm curious how many times that you think that's happened for us, though. Where we've had a shit ton of stuff to do.

SPEAKER_00 55:20

No, we don't ever have a shit ton of stuff to do.

SPEAKER_02 55:22

That's right.

SPEAKER_00 55:22

Because I do not want to have a ton of stuff to do. That's right. It's called wisdom. No way. If I can help it. And what's a marathon or do you? Like uh an hour. I was thinking two hours, but oh, um an hour beyond and beyond. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Like uh I think there's something in between that, between quickie and marathon. There's something, there's something in between that too.

SPEAKER_02 55:49

I'll get the kind of standard. I'll get a timer. Standard 45 minutes.

SPEAKER_00 55:53

Yeah, that to me is great.

SPEAKER_02 55:55

40 minutes.

SPEAKER_00 55:56

Wonderful. Everyone gets what they want.

SPEAKER_02 55:58

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 55:59

In that session. There's more than a quickie and a marathon.

SPEAKER_02 56:02

So you your preference would be somewhere in the middle?

SPEAKER_00 56:05

Yes. Okay. But that wasn't the question.

SPEAKER_02 56:09

I yeah, but I learned something here tonight.

SPEAKER_00 56:11

Yeah, something in the middle.

SPEAKER_02 56:12

All right. All right.

SPEAKER_00 56:14

Because it's like, if I was asked, like, hey, or like you were saying, oh, does that have a wonderful, like, let's just have sex all day on Saturday? I might be like, that's the romantic part of that, romanticizing part of that. Yeah. But then it's like, mmm.

SPEAKER_02 56:34

Are we done yet?

SPEAKER_00 56:35

Is there pizza?

SPEAKER_02 56:36

Is there well, what if there is pizza or tacos? So you can have food in between.

SPEAKER_00 56:41

Well, yeah. And we've had that, like like on vacations or sometimes random times on the weekend or something. But if that's all every week, mmm, no, that's work. That's called work.

SPEAKER_02 56:56

I get that. All right. Um I don't know. We've we're oh we're getting along. Oh, we're getting up there in time.

SPEAKER_00 57:04

Okay. Well, let's let's do it.

Mental Fantasy, Anonymous Play, And Lube

SPEAKER_02 57:06

Let's see. Do you ever mentally strip strangers just for kicks? Oh. Have you ever done that? No. I knew it. You've never done it.

SPEAKER_00 57:21

No. Because uh I feel like they you guys all look the same.

SPEAKER_02 57:26

A penis looks like a penis.

SPEAKER_00 57:28

It's a penis. Okay, different size, like, but like same one, you see them all. You might be more interested to see what the butt cheeks look like. Okay. Butts. Yeah. But mentally strip, no. Cause if I yeah, because if I can see arms and kind of a gauge the chest, I'm like, okay, I have all I need, all the information I need.

SPEAKER_02 57:48

Okay. I don't know that I ever have. So I don't know. Um I don't think so. Really? I've ever mentally stripped anybody.

SPEAKER_00 58:04

Because are you saying that because you don't want to be like a creep?

SPEAKER_02 58:07

No, no, not at all. Okay. I'm trying to think of a have because I think for then, like the only people in my mind, this is back to like dreaming. When you dream and you're having sex with somebody else, like I don't see any faces.

SPEAKER_00 58:20

Mm-hmm. I'm I'm the same way.

SPEAKER_02 58:22

So when I'm thinking about have I stripped anybody in my mind, I don't think so. Um I just admire them typically. Like I, if somebody's wearing some fucking hot ass yoga pants on a nice ass, like I don't picture the ass underneath it.

SPEAKER_00 58:40

I just oh you're just admiring what you're seeing. Absolutely. Okay, could that was gonna be my question? If you saw somebody yoga pants, ladies in a nice tush, and you're like, ooh, yeah, yeah. Like that right there is enough.

SPEAKER_02 58:52

Right. Absolutely. I don't picture what's underneath it.

SPEAKER_00 58:55

How about um how about tits?

SPEAKER_02 59:00

Same thing.

SPEAKER_00 59:01

That's hard to gauge because there's so much padding.

SPEAKER_02 59:03

Same thing. Like you look great in your top or you don't. Like it doesn't matter. I'm not picturing what's underneath there.

SPEAKER_00 59:10

So you're not just kind of like delete, clothes.

SPEAKER_02 59:13

Not me.

SPEAKER_00 59:14

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 59:14

Oh. Uh-oh.

SPEAKER_00 59:16

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 59:18

Um not that I not that I wouldn't, you know, in my mind think I would like to tap that ass.

SPEAKER_00 59:23

Well, that's different, right? That's like, oh, that person. Yeah. But trying to remove clothing removal. I think what's this person to look like without clothes?

SPEAKER_02 59:31

If I tried that, even as I'm looking at you right now, just I lose the face. And I think you know, for me, like I don't see it anymore. That's interesting. Kind of fades away.

SPEAKER_00 59:46

I feel like I'm gonna. This is my new like experiment, social experiment.

SPEAKER_02 59:50

You're gonna walk around stripping people in your mind?

SPEAKER_00 59:52

I'm just gonna be like, can I? I don't think I can. It's a little I'm like, eh, I don't want to. Like, there's no appeal to me.

SPEAKER_02 1:00:00

Yeah, I get that. What do you got?

SPEAKER_00 1:00:06

Have you ever had sex with someone whose name you never knew?

SPEAKER_01 1:00:12

No.

SPEAKER_00 1:00:14

What about in your dreams? They don't have a face.

SPEAKER_02 1:00:17

Well, okay, but have I ever had sex with them? No. So the answer is no. I've never had sex with somebody whose name I didn't know. Would I? I I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 1:00:28

Yeah. Well, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:00:29

I'm open to that experience.

SPEAKER_00 1:00:31

You meet we meet a couple. Um we don't really.

SPEAKER_02 1:00:36

Like my name is, and I put my finger over their lips, and I'm like, shut the fuck up, let's go now.

SPEAKER_00 1:00:40

Oh, that sounds like a fantasy.

SPEAKER_02 1:00:42

I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 1:00:42

We're okay, so this sort of happened. So if we had moved forward, like we were on the dance floor being approached by somebody, would you play with you? Yeah, would you even having a quick like um conversation and we didn't get names?

SPEAKER_02 1:01:03

I think I would be open to that just to see.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:05

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:06

I think I'd be open to it. But I still think there's conversation that I want to know somebody's interest in me.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:13

Yeah, separate from the conversation. Because it's like, oh, hey, yeah. Uh-huh-huh. Because like sometimes like you don't get the names or you don't remember the names.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:20

Well, I'll let me like my mind just went somebody somewhere totally different.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:25

Oh, where to go?

SPEAKER_02 1:01:27

Like a female glory hole. I would absolutely do that. Oh, I would absolutely do that.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:34

Yes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:35

Okay. Does that make me a creep? I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:36

No, it does not make you a creep. I I don't think you're not a good idea.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:38

You want to be fucked. Like, and yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:41

But you don't know their name.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:42

I don't know their name.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:43

Oh, it makes me think of Naughty, right? They had that room that was the dark room.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:47

Oh, right.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:49

I did not see it. But that sounded like scary.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:52

Yeah, then, but maybe there's something wet on the floor, and I just stepped in it. Like, I don't think I would like any of that. So I I don't know. There's like a lot of intrigue around that. Like it sounds sexy and oh, also it's the danger. Yeah, but then you get in there and you step in something where you're like, what the fuck did I just step in? And then you're done.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:11

Someone, yeah, someone just they're me. If they're me, they accidentally left the lid on open on the lube and just squorded it all over the damn place.

SPEAKER_02 1:02:22

I just need a attendant in there with night vision goggles on cleaning up. Then I'm okay. Interesting. Okay, so free, what was the question?

SPEAKER_00 1:02:31

Uh names. Um nope, I I've known everybody. There's not been that many. Okay. And I've known everyone's name.

SPEAKER_02 1:02:37

My last question Do you like to play with oils and lube? And of course. Who doesn't?

SPEAKER_00 1:02:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:02:46

Who doesn't?

SPEAKER_00 1:02:46

I'm gonna say oil um on the body, like massage or coconut oil.

SPEAKER_02 1:02:54

What about Crisco?

SPEAKER_00 1:02:55

For for your dick? Like I'll do coconut oil for you, but I don't want coconut oil on me because it breaks down your kills, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:06

I was breaks down your biome.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:08

Yeah, I don't want that near me.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:10

Yeah, not up in there.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:12

But lube, absolutely, is an enhancer.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:14

Yeah, absolutely. Yep.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:16

That's a requirement for me.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:18

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:19

And uh and I think for guys too, guys need lube too.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:22

You can't just spit do the thing.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:25

No, spit is so it can work.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:28

Limiting. It can work.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:29

It's limiting.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:30

You gotta do a buildup.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:31

And if you you're I don't know, if you don't have a lot of saliva, like forget about it.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:36

Figure it out. You can spit on my dick, though. I'll just like you said, no spitting earlier for you.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:42

But if you're not gonna do it, yeah, but sometimes you cannot get enough saliva.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:45

I totally know that's what I'm just joking around.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:47

Oh, oh, you're joking.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:49

I'm just joking. Like you can totally seriously. You do.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:52

I set the dick seriously.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:54

You do? Yeah. Yeah, it's a job. Yeah. No.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:58

I love it.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:58

Job.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:59

I take it seriously. I need the right tools for the job.

SPEAKER_02 1:04:03

So that is all the questions that we have.

Closing, Future Trips, And Fan Mail

SPEAKER_02 1:04:06

I think we're gonna just we're really just gonna wrap it up. Like tonight we just wanted to make it a little light, a little bit different. A little low-key. Yeah. I think we we we have a couple episodes planned still. Like, I really want to talk about our trip to desire. Um, I also want to talk about a recent house party we went to and kind of where we're at right now. Uh, but that'll be a future episode. So, really for this, just a little bit of insight into who we are, a little bit of a fun night tonight. And yeah, for those of us, for those of you that were out there looking for a drop of our podcast, I don't know, this past week, I don't know when we're gonna release this one, but I I kind of want to make sure that we're not stuck to just an every two-week schedule. Um, we don't want to produce podcasts just to produce them. Um, we want to try and keep them somewhat regular, but between life and everything else, if we skip one, then we skip one. And hopefully, you know, we still keep you guys as listeners just with that.

SPEAKER_00 1:05:04

And I think um being purposeful, meaningful is important for us. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:08

Okay, uh that wraps it up. But um, I would really love, we would really love to hear from you guys through some of the fan mail stuff.

SPEAKER_00 1:05:15

Um but only if it's like you're telling us how amazing we are. If you have something negative, like I'm gonna file it in the waste bin.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:23

Constructive criticism, good. You tell us we suck, but we know that already. I don't need to hear it, so that's cool.

SPEAKER_00 1:05:30

Yeah, like we know we we're the we're hard as critics on ourselves.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:34

That's right. With that, we love you guys. I'm Neo.

SPEAKER_00 1:05:37

And I'm Trinity.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:38

Have a sexy night, people.